50 Books like This Is How

F*ck Feelings

by Michael I. Bennett • 2015

Self-help made things worse. A psychiatrist on managing your life instead of your feelings.

3.46

6k+

🧨 Anti-Self-Help 🧠 Emotional Management 🧭 Values-Based Living 🚧 Boundary Setting 🤗 Self-Acceptance

F*ck Feelings 96%

Self-help made things worse. A psychiatrist on managing your life instead of your feelings.

by Michael I. Bennett 2015

3.46

6k+ ratings

🧨 Anti-Self-Help 🧠 Emotional Management 🧭 Values-Based Living 🚧 Boundary Setting 🤗 Self-Acceptance

The Comfort Book

by Matt Haig • 2021

Permission to stop fixing yourself: short, gentle reminders that you were never broken.

4.05

75k+

🫂 Self-Acceptance 💪 Emotional Resilience 📝 Aphoristic Self-Help 🏛️ Modern Stoicism 🧘 Mindfulness Practices

The Comfort Book 95%

Permission to stop fixing yourself: short, gentle reminders that you were never broken.

by Matt Haig 2021

4.05

75k+ ratings

🫂 Self-Acceptance 💪 Emotional Resilience 📝 Aphoristic Self-Help 🏛️ Modern Stoicism 🧘 Mindfulness Practices

Everyone You Hate is Going to Die

by Daniel Sloss • 2021

A comedian's case for why being alone, heartbroken, and uncomfortable is the real goal.

3.92

8k+

🤬 Anti-Self-Help 🎤 Comedic Memoir 💔 Modern Dating ☣️ Toxic Relationships 🩹 Breakup Recovery

Everyone You Hate is Going to Die Summary

Everyone You Hate is Going to Die 95%

A comedian's case for why being alone, heartbroken, and uncomfortable is the real goal.

by Daniel Sloss 2021

3.92

8k+ ratings

🤬 Anti-Self-Help 🎤 Comedic Memoir 💔 Modern Dating ☣️ Toxic Relationships 🩹 Breakup Recovery

You Do You

by Sarah Knight • 2017

The permission slip for saying no, skipping the party, and finally putting yourself first.

3.62

8k+

🫂 Self-Acceptance 🙃 Anti-Self-Help 🚧 Boundary Setting 🛁 Self-Care 🦄 Nonconformity

You Do You 95%

The permission slip for saying no, skipping the party, and finally putting yourself first.

by Sarah Knight 2017

3.62

8k+ ratings

🫂 Self-Acceptance 🙃 Anti-Self-Help 🚧 Boundary Setting 🛁 Self-Care 🦄 Nonconformity

Rewired

by Erica Spiegelman • 2015

Recovery is rebuilding the self that no longer needs the substance. A blueprint for real change.

3.86

472

🧰 Addiction Recovery 🌿 Holistic Recovery 🧠 Emotional Sobriety 🔧 Life Redesign 🔒 Personal Integrity

Rewired 95%

Recovery is rebuilding the self that no longer needs the substance. A blueprint for real change.

by Erica Spiegelman 2015

3.86

472 ratings

🧰 Addiction Recovery 🌿 Holistic Recovery 🧠 Emotional Sobriety 🔧 Life Redesign 🔒 Personal Integrity

Soulbriety

by Elisa Hallerman • 2022

Why sobriety fails without soul work, and how to rebuild the self addiction buried.

4.01

242

🔗 Addiction Recovery 🩹 Trauma Healing 🧘 Somatic Therapy 🧩 Inner Parts Work 🙏 Spiritual Recovery

Soulbriety 95%

Why sobriety fails without soul work, and how to rebuild the self addiction buried.

by Elisa Hallerman 2022

4.01

242 ratings

🔗 Addiction Recovery 🩹 Trauma Healing 🧘 Somatic Therapy 🧩 Inner Parts Work 🙏 Spiritual Recovery

A Womans Way Through The Twelve Steps

by Stephanie S. Covington • 1994

The Twelve Steps, reimagined through women's experience of trauma, relationships, and identity.

4.45

643

🪜 Twelve Step Recovery 👩 Female Addiction Issues 🩹 Addiction And Trauma 🕊️ Spiritual Recovery 🧘 Emotional Sobriety

A Womans Way Through The Twelve Steps Summary

A Womans Way Through The Twelve Steps 95%

The Twelve Steps, reimagined through women's experience of trauma, relationships, and identity.

by Stephanie S. Covington 1994

4.45

643 ratings

🪜 Twelve Step Recovery 👩 Female Addiction Issues 🩹 Addiction And Trauma 🕊️ Spiritual Recovery 🧘 Emotional Sobriety

12 Commandments

by Hanzi Freinacht • 2022

The problem isn't you, it's the pursuit of excellence. Here's how to thrive in mediocrity.

4.40

🚫 Anti-Self-Help 🌑 Shadow Work 🛑 Anti-Perfectionism 🏛️ Modern Stoicism 🧘 Body-Mind Connection

12 Commandments 95%

The problem isn't you, it's the pursuit of excellence. Here's how to thrive in mediocrity.

by Hanzi Freinacht 2022

4.40

42 ratings

🚫 Anti-Self-Help 🌑 Shadow Work 🛑 Anti-Perfectionism 🏛️ Modern Stoicism 🧘 Body-Mind Connection

Mentors

by Russell Brand • 2019

Russell Brand's mentors included a murderer and a monk. His recovery depended on both.

3.67

2k+

🧠 Addiction Recovery 🤝 Mentorship And Guidance 🎤 Celebrity Memoir 🕉️ Spiritual Seeking 🔄 Twelve Step Recovery

Mentors 95%

Russell Brand's mentors included a murderer and a monk. His recovery depended on both.

by Russell Brand 2019

3.67

2k+ ratings

🧠 Addiction Recovery 🤝 Mentorship And Guidance 🎤 Celebrity Memoir 🕉️ Spiritual Seeking 🔄 Twelve Step Recovery

How to Fail

by Elizabeth Day • 2019

What divorce, infertility, and not fitting in taught her that success never could.

3.93

14k+

🧱 Embracing Failure 🔄 Redefining Success 💪 Resilience Building 🔥 Female Anger 🎭 Perfectionism

How to Fail 95%

What divorce, infertility, and not fitting in taught her that success never could.

by Elizabeth Day 2019

3.93

14k+ ratings

🧱 Embracing Failure 🔄 Redefining Success 💪 Resilience Building 🔥 Female Anger 🎭 Perfectionism

Embracing Your Limitations

by Lawrence Mooney • 2022

Self-help feeds on your dissatisfaction. The exit: stop chasing dreams and accept your limits.

3.29

🚫 Anti-Self-Help 🤗 Self-Acceptance 📉 Lowered Expectations 🛑 Anti-Ambition 🏡 Simple Living

Embracing Your Limitations 95%

Self-help feeds on your dissatisfaction. The exit: stop chasing dreams and accept your limits.

by Lawrence Mooney 2022

3.29

82 ratings

🚫 Anti-Self-Help 🤗 Self-Acceptance 📉 Lowered Expectations 🛑 Anti-Ambition 🏡 Simple Living

Unwasted

by Sacha Z. Scoblic • 2011

A hard-partying writer gets sober and discovers finding her real self is harder than quitting.

3.79

2k+

📖 Recovery Memoir 🌱 Secular Recovery 🚺 Women And Addiction 🦋 Life Transformation 🍸 Social Drinking Culture

Unwasted 94%

A hard-partying writer gets sober and discovers finding her real self is harder than quitting.

by Sacha Z. Scoblic 2011

3.79

2k+ ratings

📖 Recovery Memoir 🌱 Secular Recovery 🚺 Women And Addiction 🦋 Life Transformation 🍸 Social Drinking Culture

Didn't See That Coming

by Rachel Hollis • 2020

Pain is mandatory. Suffering is negotiable. How to rebuild when everything collapses.

3.64

18k+

🩹 Crisis Recovery 💪 Emotional Resilience 🕊️ Life After Loss 💔 Divorce Recovery 🧠 Positive Psychology

Didn't See That Coming 94%

Pain is mandatory. Suffering is negotiable. How to rebuild when everything collapses.

by Rachel Hollis 2020

3.64

18k+ ratings

🩹 Crisis Recovery 💪 Emotional Resilience 🕊️ Life After Loss 💔 Divorce Recovery 🧠 Positive Psychology

How to Be Miserable

by Randy J. Paterson • 2016

Forty everyday strategies for misery, decoded: see which are yours, then do the opposite.

3.99

3k+

🧠 Behavioral Activation 🙃 Anti-Self-Help 🪤 Wellbeing Traps 📱 Digital Minimalism 🎢 Hedonic Adaptation

How to Be Miserable 94%

Forty everyday strategies for misery, decoded: see which are yours, then do the opposite.

by Randy J. Paterson 2016

3.99

3k+ ratings

🧠 Behavioral Activation 🙃 Anti-Self-Help 🪤 Wellbeing Traps 📱 Digital Minimalism 🎢 Hedonic Adaptation

Emotional Sobriety

by Tian Dayton • 2007

The emotional regulation skills that keep you stopped, long after the substance is gone.

4.26

486

🧠 Trauma Recovery 💗 Emotional Regulation 🔄 Addiction Recovery 🪢 Codependency Recovery 🔗 Attachment Theory

Emotional Sobriety 94%

The emotional regulation skills that keep you stopped, long after the substance is gone.

by Tian Dayton 2007

4.26

486 ratings

🧠 Trauma Recovery 💗 Emotional Regulation 🔄 Addiction Recovery 🪢 Codependency Recovery 🔗 Attachment Theory

How to Survive the End of the World

by Aaron Gillies • 2018

Your brain thinks a Monday meeting is a lion. Here is a survival guide, with jokes.

4.00

1k+

🧠 Anxiety Management 📖 Mental Health Memoir 🛋️ Cognitive Behavioral Therapy 🧘 Mindfulness ❤️ Self-Compassion

How to Survive the End of the World Summary

How to Survive the End of the World 94%

Your brain thinks a Monday meeting is a lion. Here is a survival guide, with jokes.

by Aaron Gillies 2018

4.00

1k+ ratings

🧠 Anxiety Management 📖 Mental Health Memoir 🛋️ Cognitive Behavioral Therapy 🧘 Mindfulness ❤️ Self-Compassion

Silicon Valley Porn Star

by Jason Portnoy • 2022

He built startups by day and a sex addiction by night. Then his wife called.

4.32

256

🖥️ Silicon Valley Culture 🔞 Pornography Addiction 📖 Addiction Memoirs 🧸 Childhood Trauma 🛡️ Shame Resilience

Silicon Valley Porn Star 94%

He built startups by day and a sex addiction by night. Then his wife called.

by Jason Portnoy 2022

4.32

256 ratings

🖥️ Silicon Valley Culture 🔞 Pornography Addiction 📖 Addiction Memoirs 🧸 Childhood Trauma 🛡️ Shame Resilience

The Only Constant

by Najwa Zebian • 2024

Your body equates the familiar with safety, even when familiar hurts. How to reroute it.

4.22

639

🦋 Embracing Change 💗 Self-Compassion 🕊️ Radical Acceptance ✨ Authenticity 🌱 Emotional Resilience

The Only Constant 94%

Your body equates the familiar with safety, even when familiar hurts. How to reroute it.

by Najwa Zebian 2024

4.22

639 ratings

🦋 Embracing Change 💗 Self-Compassion 🕊️ Radical Acceptance ✨ Authenticity 🌱 Emotional Resilience

Carry On, Warrior

by Glennon Doyle • 2013

Addiction, infidelity, parenting fails: one woman's refusal to pretend, and the life that followed.

4.10

30k+

🔮 Spiritual Memoir 🧊 Addiction Recovery 🌿 Everyday Spirituality 💬 Radical Honesty 👶 Modern Motherhood

Carry On, Warrior 94%

Addiction, infidelity, parenting fails: one woman's refusal to pretend, and the life that followed.

by Glennon Doyle 2013

4.10

30k+ ratings

🔮 Spiritual Memoir 🧊 Addiction Recovery 🌿 Everyday Spirituality 💬 Radical Honesty 👶 Modern Motherhood

The Little Book of Big Change

by Amy Johnson • 2016

Why willpower backfires: the insight shift that unwinds any habit without struggle or setback.

3.88

1k+

🧘 Addiction Recovery 💡 Insight-Based Change 🌱 Innate Health 🌀 Non-Dual Psychology 🌊 Urge Management

The Little Book of Big Change 94%

Why willpower backfires: the insight shift that unwinds any habit without struggle or setback.

by Amy Johnson 2016

3.88

1k+ ratings

🧘 Addiction Recovery 💡 Insight-Based Change 🌱 Innate Health 🌀 Non-Dual Psychology 🌊 Urge Management

Morning Sunshine!

by Robin Meade • 2009

Stop performing confidence and start building it: the daily mental habits that rewire self-doubt.

3.71

290

🧱 Confidence Building 🫂 Self-Acceptance 🔍 Self-Awareness 🧠 Cognitive Reframing ⚡ Fear Confrontation

Morning Sunshine! 94%

Stop performing confidence and start building it: the daily mental habits that rewire self-doubt.

by Robin Meade 2009

3.71

290 ratings

🧱 Confidence Building 🫂 Self-Acceptance 🔍 Self-Awareness 🧠 Cognitive Reframing ⚡ Fear Confrontation

The Way of Integrity

by Martha Beck • 2021

Your unhappiness is a lie you're living. A single honest question can dissolve it.

4.17

11k+

🧩 Inner Wholeness 🧠 Cultural Conditioning 💬 Radical Honesty 🌑 Shadow Work ❓ Self-Inquiry

The Way of Integrity 94%

Your unhappiness is a lie you're living. A single honest question can dissolve it.

by Martha Beck 2021

4.17

11k+ ratings

🧩 Inner Wholeness 🧠 Cultural Conditioning 💬 Radical Honesty 🌑 Shadow Work ❓ Self-Inquiry

The Laughing Guide to a Better Life

by Isaac Prilleltensky • 2019

Change is a slog unless you can laugh at it. A behavioral scientist maps the route.

3.25

🧠 Positive Psychology 🤣 Therapeutic Humor 🔄 Behavior Change 🏠 Environmental Design 🔍 Cognitive Reframing

The Laughing Guide to a Better Life Summary

The Laughing Guide to a Better Life 94%

Change is a slog unless you can laugh at it. A behavioral scientist maps the route.

by Isaac Prilleltensky 2019

3.25

4 ratings

🧠 Positive Psychology 🤣 Therapeutic Humor 🔄 Behavior Change 🏠 Environmental Design 🔍 Cognitive Reframing

On Being Human

by Jennifer Pastiloff • 2019

Silence the inner critic, drop the labels, and build a life you don't need to escape from.

3.91

4k+

🧠 Trauma Memoir 🧘‍♀️ Embodiment 💔 Vulnerability 📖 Narrative Identity 🤝 Chosen Family

On Being Human 94%

Silence the inner critic, drop the labels, and build a life you don't need to escape from.

by Jennifer Pastiloff 2019

3.91

4k+ ratings

🧠 Trauma Memoir 🧘‍♀️ Embodiment 💔 Vulnerability 📖 Narrative Identity 🤝 Chosen Family

Loving What Is

by Byron Katie • 2002

Four blunt questions dismantle any painful thought. The reversal shows you what you've been hiding.

4.07

25k+

🪞 Self Inquiry 🔄 Cognitive Reframing 🤲 Accepting Reality ☯️ Non-Duality 👤 Self-Judgment

Loving What Is 94%

Four blunt questions dismantle any painful thought. The reversal shows you what you've been hiding.

by Byron Katie 2002

4.07

25k+ ratings

🪞 Self Inquiry 🔄 Cognitive Reframing 🤲 Accepting Reality ☯️ Non-Duality 👤 Self-Judgment

The Addiction Manifesto

by Jerry Weaver • 2021

From addiction to sobriety in 365 days: a daily rebuild that succeeds when willpower collapses.

4.72

1k+

🛑 Addiction Recovery 🤝 12-Step Recovery ⚠️ Relapse Prevention ✍️ Recovery Memoir ✝️ Christian Recovery

The Addiction Manifesto 94%

From addiction to sobriety in 365 days: a daily rebuild that succeeds when willpower collapses.

by Jerry Weaver 2021

4.72

1k+ ratings

🛑 Addiction Recovery 🤝 12-Step Recovery ⚠️ Relapse Prevention ✍️ Recovery Memoir ✝️ Christian Recovery

Furiously Happy

by Jenny Lawson • 2015

When despair says forever, fight back with taxidermy, defiant joy, and inappropriate laughter.

3.89

176k+

🧠 Mental Illness Memoir ✨ Defiant Joy 💜 Radical Self-Acceptance 🎭 Imposter Syndrome 🎙️ Confessional Humor

Furiously Happy 94%

When despair says forever, fight back with taxidermy, defiant joy, and inappropriate laughter.

by Jenny Lawson 2015

3.89

176k+ ratings

🧠 Mental Illness Memoir ✨ Defiant Joy 💜 Radical Self-Acceptance 🎭 Imposter Syndrome 🎙️ Confessional Humor

Love Warrior

by Glennon Doyle Melton • 2016

After her husband's infidelity, staying married meant ending a lifelong habit of hiding from pain.

4.07

75k+

💔 Marriage Crisis 🦋 Addiction And Recovery 💗 Emotional Vulnerability 🌸 Women's Self-Discovery ⛪ Faith Reconstruction

Love Warrior 94%

After her husband's infidelity, staying married meant ending a lifelong habit of hiding from pain.

by Glennon Doyle Melton 2016

4.07

75k+ ratings

💔 Marriage Crisis 🦋 Addiction And Recovery 💗 Emotional Vulnerability 🌸 Women's Self-Discovery ⛪ Faith Reconstruction

The Antidote

by Oliver Burkeman • 2012

Positive thinking backfires. The case for embracing failure, mortality, and worst-case scenarios.

4.04

17k+

🔄 Anti-Self-Help 📚 Happiness Studies 🏛️ Modern Stoicism 🧘 Buddhist Psychology 🧠 Mindfulness Practice

The Antidote 94%

Positive thinking backfires. The case for embracing failure, mortality, and worst-case scenarios.

by Oliver Burkeman 2012

4.04

17k+ ratings

🔄 Anti-Self-Help 📚 Happiness Studies 🏛️ Modern Stoicism 🧘 Buddhist Psychology 🧠 Mindfulness Practice

RELAX - You May Only Have a Few Minutes Left

by Loretta LaRoche • 1998

Laughter as stress medicine: a comedian's cognitive toolkit for breaking the worry spiral.

3.84

192

🧘 Stress Management ☀️ Positive Psychology 😂 Humor Therapy 🔄 Cognitive Reframing 🎯 Perfectionism Recovery

RELAX - You May Only Have a Few Minutes Left Summary

RELAX - You May Only Have a Few Minutes Left 94%

Laughter as stress medicine: a comedian's cognitive toolkit for breaking the worry spiral.

by Loretta LaRoche 1998

3.84

192 ratings

🧘 Stress Management ☀️ Positive Psychology 😂 Humor Therapy 🔄 Cognitive Reframing 🎯 Perfectionism Recovery

Healing the Shame That Binds You

by John Bradshaw • 1988

When shame becomes identity, it poisons everything. The exit begins with telling someone.

4.09

12k+

🧒 Childhood Trauma 🗣️ Inner Critic 🔄 Addiction Recovery 💗 Self-Compassion 🔗 Codependency

Healing the Shame That Binds You Summary

Healing the Shame That Binds You 94%

When shame becomes identity, it poisons everything. The exit begins with telling someone.

by John Bradshaw 1988

4.09

12k+ ratings

🧒 Childhood Trauma 🗣️ Inner Critic 🔄 Addiction Recovery 💗 Self-Compassion 🔗 Codependency

How To Do Things You Hate

by Peter Hollins • 2023

Bypass the emotional resistance that stops you from hard tasks, without waiting for motivation.

3.78

334

😤 Emotional Regulation ⏰ Procrastination 🔦 Attention Management 💗 Self Compassion ✅ Acceptance

How To Do Things You Hate 94%

Bypass the emotional resistance that stops you from hard tasks, without waiting for motivation.

by Peter Hollins 2023

3.78

334 ratings

😤 Emotional Regulation ⏰ Procrastination 🔦 Attention Management 💗 Self Compassion ✅ Acceptance

How to Giggle

by Hannah Berner • 2025

Caring less is a skill. A comedian's blunt playbook for anxiety, bad dates, and toxic friends.

4.05

18k+

🎭 Comedy Self-Help 👯 Female Friendships 🧠 Anxiety Coping 💔 Modern Dating 💗 Self-Acceptance

How to Giggle 94%

Caring less is a skill. A comedian's blunt playbook for anxiety, bad dates, and toxic friends.

by Hannah Berner 2025

4.05

18k+ ratings

🎭 Comedy Self-Help 👯 Female Friendships 🧠 Anxiety Coping 💔 Modern Dating 💗 Self-Acceptance

Brain over Binge

by Kathryn Hansen • 2011

Binge eating is a brain habit, not a disorder. Stop acting on urges, and they stop.

3.84

3k+

🩹 Eating Disorder Recovery 🧠 Neuroplasticity 🌊 Urge Surfing 🧘 Mindful Detachment 📖 Eating Disorder Memoir

Brain over Binge 94%

Binge eating is a brain habit, not a disorder. Stop acting on urges, and they stop.

by Kathryn Hansen 2011

3.84

3k+ ratings

🩹 Eating Disorder Recovery 🧠 Neuroplasticity 🌊 Urge Surfing 🧘 Mindful Detachment 📖 Eating Disorder Memoir

first, we make the beast beautiful

by Sarah Wilson • 2017

Meditation, micro habits, and wabi-sabi wisdom for turning anxiety from a curse into a compass.

3.77

17k+

🧠 Anxiety Management 📖 Anxiety Memoir 🤲 Emotional Acceptance 🔄 Micro Habits 🔍 Search For Meaning

first, we make the beast beautiful Summary

first, we make the beast beautiful 94%

Meditation, micro habits, and wabi-sabi wisdom for turning anxiety from a curse into a compass.

by Sarah Wilson 2017

3.77

17k+ ratings

🧠 Anxiety Management 📖 Anxiety Memoir 🤲 Emotional Acceptance 🔄 Micro Habits 🔍 Search For Meaning

You Will Get Through This Night

by Daniel Howell • 2021

A comedian's frank toolkit for navigating your worst nights, no self-help platitudes required.

4.25

8k+

🧠 Cognitive Therapy 💭 Emotional Regulation 💖 Self-Compassion 🌿 Mental Wellness 🏳️‍🌈 Queer Mental Health

You Will Get Through This Night 94%

A comedian's frank toolkit for navigating your worst nights, no self-help platitudes required.

by Daniel Howell 2021

4.25

8k+ ratings

🧠 Cognitive Therapy 💭 Emotional Regulation 💖 Self-Compassion 🌿 Mental Wellness 🏳️‍🌈 Queer Mental Health

The 52 Week Project

by Lauren Keenan • 2020

Fifty-two uncomfortable firsts in one year: how a mother rebuilt the identity she'd lost.

3.35

379

🎪 Stunt Memoir 🆕 New Experiences 🚧 Comfort Zones 👩‍👧‍👦 Working Mothers 😊 Positive Psychology

The 52 Week Project 94%

Fifty-two uncomfortable firsts in one year: how a mother rebuilt the identity she'd lost.

by Lauren Keenan 2020

3.35

379 ratings

🎪 Stunt Memoir 🆕 New Experiences 🚧 Comfort Zones 👩‍👧‍👦 Working Mothers 😊 Positive Psychology

The Year of Less

by Cait Flanders • 2018

She quit shopping for a year and shed 70% of her belongings. What remained surprised her.

3.45

71k+

🛒 Shopping Addiction 🏠 Minimalist Living 🍷 Sobriety Journey 📉 Consumerism Critique 💸 Debt Recovery

The Year of Less 94%

She quit shopping for a year and shed 70% of her belongings. What remained surprised her.

by Cait Flanders 2018

3.45

71k+ ratings

🛒 Shopping Addiction 🏠 Minimalist Living 🍷 Sobriety Journey 📉 Consumerism Critique 💸 Debt Recovery

Help!

by Oliver Burkeman • 2010

Small, imperfect changes beat grand transformations. A skeptic's guide to being modestly happier.

3.94

1k+

🧐 Anti-Self-Help 🙏 Gratitude Practice 🧠 Cognitive Biases 🔄 Habit Formation ⚙️ Productivity Systems

Help! 94%

Small, imperfect changes beat grand transformations. A skeptic's guide to being modestly happier.

by Oliver Burkeman 2010

3.94

1k+ ratings

🧐 Anti-Self-Help 🙏 Gratitude Practice 🧠 Cognitive Biases 🔄 Habit Formation ⚙️ Productivity Systems

The Pursuit of Perfect

by Tal Ben-Shahar • 2009

Perfectionism is not high standards. It's a refusal of reality, and it can be unlearned.

4.01

2k+

🧪 Positive Psychology 🔧 Perfectionism Recovery 🌱 Growth Mindset 💗 Self-Compassion ⚖️ Work Life Balance

The Pursuit of Perfect 94%

Perfectionism is not high standards. It's a refusal of reality, and it can be unlearned.

by Tal Ben-Shahar 2009

4.01

2k+ ratings

🧪 Positive Psychology 🔧 Perfectionism Recovery 🌱 Growth Mindset 💗 Self-Compassion ⚖️ Work Life Balance

You Can't Ruin My Day

by Allen Klein • 2015

Fifty-two short chapters that teach you to stop handing your emotional keys to everyone else.

3.80

175

💪 Emotional Resilience 🔄 Reframing Thoughts 🙏 Gratitude Practice 😂 Humor As Healing 🧘 Acceptance And Commitment

You Can't Ruin My Day 94%

Fifty-two short chapters that teach you to stop handing your emotional keys to everyone else.

by Allen Klein 2015

3.80

175 ratings

💪 Emotional Resilience 🔄 Reframing Thoughts 🙏 Gratitude Practice 😂 Humor As Healing 🧘 Acceptance And Commitment

Gratitude and Trust

by Paul Williams • 2014

Six daily recovery commitments that replace self-sabotage with gratitude, trust, and service.

3.87

336

🛟 Addiction Recovery 🙏 Twelve Step Spirituality 💥 Self-Sabotage 🧘 Emotional Sobriety 🌙 Daily Reflection

Gratitude and Trust 94%

Six daily recovery commitments that replace self-sabotage with gratitude, trust, and service.

by Paul Williams 2014

3.87

336 ratings

🛟 Addiction Recovery 🙏 Twelve Step Spirituality 💥 Self-Sabotage 🧘 Emotional Sobriety 🌙 Daily Reflection

And Never Stop Dancing

by Gordon Livingston • 2006

Thirty blunt truths: why anger hides sadness, forgiveness heals the giver, and passivity is a trap.

3.75

505

🏛️ Stoic Resilience 🎭 Self-Deception 🕊️ Forgiveness 😶 Emotional Avoidance 🏠 Blended Families

And Never Stop Dancing 94%

Thirty blunt truths: why anger hides sadness, forgiveness heals the giver, and passivity is a trap.

by Gordon Livingston 2006

3.75

505 ratings

🏛️ Stoic Resilience 🎭 Self-Deception 🕊️ Forgiveness 😶 Emotional Avoidance 🏠 Blended Families

Glow in the F*cking Dark

by Tara Schuster • 2023

The unglamorous daily practices that rebuilt a life, from a hot mess who tried everything else.

3.91

3k+

📖 Self-Help Memoir 🩹 Trauma Healing 🧒 Reparenting 📓 Journaling 🧘 Body Neutrality

Glow in the F*cking Dark 94%

The unglamorous daily practices that rebuilt a life, from a hot mess who tried everything else.

by Tara Schuster 2023

3.91

3k+ ratings

📖 Self-Help Memoir 🩹 Trauma Healing 🧒 Reparenting 📓 Journaling 🧘 Body Neutrality

Feeding the Hungry Heart

by Geneen Roth • 1981

Restriction feeds the binge. Recovery starts by asking what you're really hungry for.

3.96

906

🍽️ Emotional Eating 🪞 Body Image 🚫 Anti-Diet 🧘 Intuitive Eating 🍃 Mindful Eating

Feeding the Hungry Heart 94%

Restriction feeds the binge. Recovery starts by asking what you're really hungry for.

by Geneen Roth 1981

3.96

906 ratings

🍽️ Emotional Eating 🪞 Body Image 🚫 Anti-Diet 🧘 Intuitive Eating 🍃 Mindful Eating

Gracious

by Kelly Williams Brown • 2017

Charm can be learned. Tact can be practiced. Both begin with how you treat yourself.

3.64

601

🍽️ Modern Etiquette 💗 Self-Compassion 🏠 Hospitality 👗 Personal Style 📱 Digital Mindfulness

Gracious 94%

Charm can be learned. Tact can be practiced. Both begin with how you treat yourself.

by Kelly Williams Brown 2017

3.64

601 ratings

🍽️ Modern Etiquette 💗 Self-Compassion 🏠 Hospitality 👗 Personal Style 📱 Digital Mindfulness

F**k It - Do What You Love

by John C. Parkin • 2016

The permission to stop trying so hard: why caring less brings more peace than self-optimization.

3.16

849

😏 Irreverent Self-Help 🫂 Emotional Acceptance 🤷 The Art Of Not Caring 🧘 Present Moment Awareness 🙃 Anti-Positivity

F**k It - Do What You Love 94%

The permission to stop trying so hard: why caring less brings more peace than self-optimization.

by John C. Parkin 2016

3.16

849 ratings

😏 Irreverent Self-Help 🫂 Emotional Acceptance 🤷 The Art Of Not Caring 🧘 Present Moment Awareness 🙃 Anti-Positivity

Building a Life Worth Living

by Marsha M. Linehan • 2020

The psychologist who created DBT was once the suicidal teenager no treatment could reach.

4.10

6k+

🧠 Mental Health Memoir 🛟 Suicide Prevention 🏥 Clinical Psychology 🎭 Borderline Personality 🔬 Therapy Development

Building a Life Worth Living 94%

The psychologist who created DBT was once the suicidal teenager no treatment could reach.

by Marsha M. Linehan 2020

4.10

6k+ ratings

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Two internal voices, one recovery. A therapist's method for building the self that wants to heal.

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Two internal voices, one recovery. A therapist's method for building the self that wants to heal.

by Carolyn Costin 2011

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Addiction begins hours before the act, driven by rage against powerlessness, not a brain disease.

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Breaking Addiction 94%

Addiction begins hours before the act, driven by rage against powerlessness, not a brain disease.

by Lance Dodes 2011

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🩹 Addiction Recovery 💔 Trauma And Addiction 🚫 Alternatives To Aa 🌱 Emotional Root Causes 🛡️ Defense Mechanisms

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