50 Books like When Pleasing Others Is Hurting You

Boundaries

by Henry Cloud • 1992

Say no without guilt, stop absorbing what isn't yours, and hold the line when pushback comes.

4.21

88k+

🧱 Boundary Setting ✝️ Christian Psychology 🚫 Saying No 🧭 Personal Responsibility 🔗 Codependency Recovery

Boundaries 97%

Say no without guilt, stop absorbing what isn't yours, and hold the line when pushback comes.

by Henry Cloud 1992

4.21

88k+ ratings

🧱 Boundary Setting ✝️ Christian Psychology 🚫 Saying No 🧭 Personal Responsibility 🔗 Codependency Recovery

Approval Addiction

by Joyce Meyer • 2002

Your worth, anchored in who God says you are, not in anyone's approval: the end of people-pleasing.

4.37

4k+

🙅‍♀️ People-Pleasing Recovery 🚧 Boundary Setting ✝️ Christian Identity 🕊️ Forgiveness And Grace 😔 Shame Resilience

Approval Addiction 97%

Your worth, anchored in who God says you are, not in anyone's approval: the end of people-pleasing.

by Joyce Meyer 2002

4.37

4k+ ratings

🙅‍♀️ People-Pleasing Recovery 🚧 Boundary Setting ✝️ Christian Identity 🕊️ Forgiveness And Grace 😔 Shame Resilience

Boundaries

by Henry Cloud • 1995

Say no without losing connection: a biblical path from guilt to freedom.

4.32

1k+

🚧 Boundary Setting 🙇 People Pleasing 🔗 Codependency Recovery ✝️ Christian Boundaries 🏡 Family Of Origin

Boundaries 97%

Say no without losing connection: a biblical path from guilt to freedom.

by Henry Cloud 1995

4.32

1k+ ratings

🚧 Boundary Setting 🙇 People Pleasing 🔗 Codependency Recovery ✝️ Christian Boundaries 🏡 Family Of Origin

Take Your Life Back

by Stephen F. Arterburn • 2016

When your past runs your present, recovery begins with learning to respond rather than react.

3.91

222

✝️ Christian Recovery 🧒 Childhood Trauma Recovery 😔 Toxic Shame 🔗 Attachment Styles 🧱 Boundary Setting

Take Your Life Back 97%

When your past runs your present, recovery begins with learning to respond rather than react.

by Stephen F. Arterburn 2016

3.91

222 ratings

✝️ Christian Recovery 🧒 Childhood Trauma Recovery 😔 Toxic Shame 🔗 Attachment Styles 🧱 Boundary Setting

The People Pleaser's Guide to Loving Others without Losing Yourself

by Mike Bechtle • 2021

Escape the approval trap: the skills for real relationships that don't require losing your warmth.

4.16

140

🧱 People Pleasing 🔒 Relational Boundaries 😟 Fear Of Rejection 💪 Personal Responsibility 🙏 Gratitude Practice

The People Pleaser's Guide to Loving Others without Losing Yourself Summary

The People Pleaser's Guide to Loving Others without Losing Yourself 96%

Escape the approval trap: the skills for real relationships that don't require losing your warmth.

by Mike Bechtle 2021

4.16

140 ratings

🧱 People Pleasing 🔒 Relational Boundaries 😟 Fear Of Rejection 💪 Personal Responsibility 🙏 Gratitude Practice

When Making Others Happy Is Making You Miserable

by Karen Ehman • 2021

Fear of rejection has hijacked your yes. The faith-based way back to a clean, honest no.

3.94

713

🙇 People Pleasing 😰 Fear Of Rejection 🧱 Boundary Setting 🗣️ Honest Communication 📵 Digital Boundaries

When Making Others Happy Is Making You Miserable Summary

When Making Others Happy Is Making You Miserable 96%

Fear of rejection has hijacked your yes. The faith-based way back to a clean, honest no.

by Karen Ehman 2021

3.94

713 ratings

🙇 People Pleasing 😰 Fear Of Rejection 🧱 Boundary Setting 🗣️ Honest Communication 📵 Digital Boundaries

Authentically, Uniquely You

by Joyce Meyer • 2021

The people-pleasing trap and how to escape it: a faith-based plan for unshakable confidence.

4.38

1k+

🙇 People Pleasing ✝️ Identity In Christ 🚫 Overcoming Rejection 🛡️ Boundary Setting ⚖️ Comparison Trap

Authentically, Uniquely You 96%

The people-pleasing trap and how to escape it: a faith-based plan for unshakable confidence.

by Joyce Meyer 2021

4.38

1k+ ratings

🙇 People Pleasing ✝️ Identity In Christ 🚫 Overcoming Rejection 🛡️ Boundary Setting ⚖️ Comparison Trap

How to Deal with Toxic People

by Gregory L. Jantz • 2021

Toxic people will not change just because you forgive them. Pairing grace with backbone.

3.76

218

🧪 Toxic Relationships 🧱 Boundary Setting 🎭 People-Pleasing 🗣️ Conflict Communication ✝️ Christian Counseling

How to Deal with Toxic People 96%

Toxic people will not change just because you forgive them. Pairing grace with backbone.

by Gregory L. Jantz 2021

3.76

218 ratings

🧪 Toxic Relationships 🧱 Boundary Setting 🎭 People-Pleasing 🗣️ Conflict Communication ✝️ Christian Counseling

Never Go Back

by Henry Cloud • 2014

Your failed patterns aren't a willpower problem. They're a going-it-alone problem.

4.26

1k+

🛐 Christian Self-Help 🔁 Breaking Cycles 🤝 Accountability 🚧 Boundaries 🤍 Authenticity

Never Go Back 96%

Your failed patterns aren't a willpower problem. They're a going-it-alone problem.

by Henry Cloud 2014

4.26

1k+ ratings

🛐 Christian Self-Help 🔁 Breaking Cycles 🤝 Accountability 🚧 Boundaries 🤍 Authenticity

Too Nice for Your Own Good

by Duke Robinson • 1997

Nice people finish drained, resentful, and overlooked. Specific skills that break the pattern.

3.46

2k+

🎭 People Pleasing 🚧 Interpersonal Boundaries 🗣️ Assertiveness Training 💬 Emotional Honesty 😤 Anger Management

Too Nice for Your Own Good 96%

Nice people finish drained, resentful, and overlooked. Specific skills that break the pattern.

by Duke Robinson 1997

3.46

2k+ ratings

🎭 People Pleasing 🚧 Interpersonal Boundaries 🗣️ Assertiveness Training 💬 Emotional Honesty 😤 Anger Management

Changes That Heal

by Henry Cloud • 1992

Childhood built or broke four inner capacities. Two combined forces can rebuild them in adulthood.

4.37

5k+

❤️ Christian Psychology 🧒 Childhood Wounds 🚧 Boundary Setting 🧩 Emotional Integration 🔗 Attachment Theory

Changes That Heal 96%

Childhood built or broke four inner capacities. Two combined forces can rebuild them in adulthood.

by Henry Cloud 1992

4.37

5k+ ratings

❤️ Christian Psychology 🧒 Childhood Wounds 🚧 Boundary Setting 🧩 Emotional Integration 🔗 Attachment Theory

Let Go Now

by Karen Casey • 2010

The illusion of control is exhausting you. Detachment, done right, is how you get your life back.

4.16

600

🪢 Codependency Recovery 🚧 Relationship Boundaries 🍃 Letting Go 🪜 12-Step Principles ☮️ Inner Peace

Let Go Now 96%

The illusion of control is exhausting you. Detachment, done right, is how you get your life back.

by Karen Casey 2010

4.16

600 ratings

🪢 Codependency Recovery 🚧 Relationship Boundaries 🍃 Letting Go 🪜 12-Step Principles ☮️ Inner Peace

Safe People

by Henry Cloud • 1995

Bad relationships aren't bad luck. Why you keep choosing unsafe people, and how to stop.

4.22

6k+

🧭 Relational Discernment ⛪ Christian Relationships 🚧 Boundary Setting 💚 Emotional Healing 🔄 Relational Patterns

Safe People 95%

Bad relationships aren't bad luck. Why you keep choosing unsafe people, and how to stop.

by Henry Cloud 1995

4.22

6k+ ratings

🧭 Relational Discernment ⛪ Christian Relationships 🚧 Boundary Setting 💚 Emotional Healing 🔄 Relational Patterns

The Codependency Recovery Plan

by Krystal Mazzola • 2019

Codependency taught you to put everyone first. A structured plan to finally put yourself there.

4.27

326

🧶 Codependency Recovery 🚧 Boundary Setting 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Family Dynamics 🎭 People Pleasing 🛁 Self-Care Practices

The Codependency Recovery Plan 95%

Codependency taught you to put everyone first. A structured plan to finally put yourself there.

by Krystal Mazzola 2019

4.27

326 ratings

🧶 Codependency Recovery 🚧 Boundary Setting 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Family Dynamics 🎭 People Pleasing 🛁 Self-Care Practices

Overcoming Fear, Worry, and Anxiety

by Elyse M. Fitzpatrick • 2001

Fear targets women in predictable ways. The biblical route from anxiety to genuine confidence.

4.32

830

🕊️ Christian Living 📖 Biblical Counseling 🙏 Christian Women 💪 Faith Over Fear 🌿 Grace-Based Living

Overcoming Fear, Worry, and Anxiety Summary

Overcoming Fear, Worry, and Anxiety 95%

Fear targets women in predictable ways. The biblical route from anxiety to genuine confidence.

by Elyse M. Fitzpatrick 2001

4.32

830 ratings

🕊️ Christian Living 📖 Biblical Counseling 🙏 Christian Women 💪 Faith Over Fear 🌿 Grace-Based Living

Transforming Fellowship

by Chris M. Coursey • 2016

Your brain can learn joy. Nineteen skills for community that holds together when life falls apart.

4.13

🕊️ Christian Living 🌱 Spiritual Formation 🧠 Emotional Regulation 🤝 Attachment Theory 💬 Relational Skills

Transforming Fellowship 95%

Your brain can learn joy. Nineteen skills for community that holds together when life falls apart.

by Chris M. Coursey 2016

4.13

54 ratings

🕊️ Christian Living 🌱 Spiritual Formation 🧠 Emotional Regulation 🤝 Attachment Theory 💬 Relational Skills

When to Walk Away

by Gary L. Thomas • 2019

Jesus walked away over forty times. The church forgot this freedom, and your calling pays.

4.47

2k+

🧨 Toxic Relationships 🚧 Setting Boundaries ✝️ Christian Relationships 🛡️ Difficult People 🔍 Discernment

When to Walk Away 95%

Jesus walked away over forty times. The church forgot this freedom, and your calling pays.

by Gary L. Thomas 2019

4.47

2k+ ratings

🧨 Toxic Relationships 🚧 Setting Boundaries ✝️ Christian Relationships 🛡️ Difficult People 🔍 Discernment

Dealing with the CrazyMakers in Your Life

by David Hawkins • 2007

Five toxic personalities that distort your reality, and the boundary system for reclaiming it.

4.08

227

💔 Toxic Relationships 🚧 Boundary Setting 🎭 Emotional Manipulation 🧠 Cognitive Distortions ⛓ Codependency

Dealing with the CrazyMakers in Your Life Summary

Dealing with the CrazyMakers in Your Life 95%

Five toxic personalities that distort your reality, and the boundary system for reclaiming it.

by David Hawkins 2007

4.08

227 ratings

💔 Toxic Relationships 🚧 Boundary Setting 🎭 Emotional Manipulation 🧠 Cognitive Distortions ⛓ Codependency

How to Stop Breaking Your Own Heart

by Meggan Roxanne • 2024

Your worst relationship is with yourself. The way out: stop treating your own needs as negotiable.

3.68

2k+

🙇 People Pleasing 🚧 Boundary Setting 💔 Self Sabotage 💖 Self Compassion ✨ Authentic Living

How to Stop Breaking Your Own Heart Summary

How to Stop Breaking Your Own Heart 95%

Your worst relationship is with yourself. The way out: stop treating your own needs as negotiable.

by Meggan Roxanne 2024

3.68

2k+ ratings

🙇 People Pleasing 🚧 Boundary Setting 💔 Self Sabotage 💖 Self Compassion ✨ Authentic Living

Reset

by Debra Fileta • 2023

A counselor maps the circuit linking your thoughts, feelings, and actions, and where change sticks.

4.38

419

✝️ Christian Self-Help 🧠 Cognitive Therapy 🔄 Thought Habits 🌊 Emotional Regulation 🧱 Boundary Setting

Reset 95%

A counselor maps the circuit linking your thoughts, feelings, and actions, and where change sticks.

by Debra Fileta 2023

4.38

419 ratings

✝️ Christian Self-Help 🧠 Cognitive Therapy 🔄 Thought Habits 🌊 Emotional Regulation 🧱 Boundary Setting

When People Are Big and God is Small

by Edward T. Welch • 1997

People-pleasing is a worship disorder. The only cure is a God too holy to hide from.

4.27

10k+

📖 Biblical Counseling 🙇 People Pleasing 🫣 Shame And Hiding 🔗 Codependency ✝️ Christian Living

When People Are Big and God is Small Summary

When People Are Big and God is Small 95%

People-pleasing is a worship disorder. The only cure is a God too holy to hide from.

by Edward T. Welch 1997

4.27

10k+ ratings

📖 Biblical Counseling 🙇 People Pleasing 🫣 Shame And Hiding 🔗 Codependency ✝️ Christian Living

No More Christian Nice Guy

by Paul Coughlin • 2005

Why Christian men must trade passive niceness for the rugged, assertive goodness of Jesus himself.

3.82

540

🛡️ Christian Masculinity 🙇 People Pleasing 😨 Overcoming Fear 💪 Assertiveness ⛪ Church Culture

No More Christian Nice Guy 95%

Why Christian men must trade passive niceness for the rugged, assertive goodness of Jesus himself.

by Paul Coughlin 2005

3.82

540 ratings

🛡️ Christian Masculinity 🙇 People Pleasing 😨 Overcoming Fear 💪 Assertiveness ⛪ Church Culture

Beyond Boundaries

by John Townsend • 2011

Trust is rebuilt through grief, boundaries, and understanding why you chose who you did.

4.34

1k+

🔗 Relational Trust 🧱 Boundary Setting 💧 Grief Work 🫀 Vulnerability 🧩 Attachment Patterns

Beyond Boundaries 95%

Trust is rebuilt through grief, boundaries, and understanding why you chose who you did.

by John Townsend 2011

4.34

1k+ ratings

🔗 Relational Trust 🧱 Boundary Setting 💧 Grief Work 🫀 Vulnerability 🧩 Attachment Patterns

Healing the Soul of a Woman

by Joyce Meyer • 2018

Old wounds still run the show. A spiritual path to reclaiming your life from past pain.

4.42

2k+

🩹 Emotional Healing ✝️ Christian Self-Help 🙏 Faith-Based Healing 🕊️ Forgiveness Practice 🚧 Boundary Setting

Healing the Soul of a Woman 95%

Old wounds still run the show. A spiritual path to reclaiming your life from past pain.

by Joyce Meyer 2018

4.42

2k+ ratings

🩹 Emotional Healing ✝️ Christian Self-Help 🙏 Faith-Based Healing 🕊️ Forgiveness Practice 🚧 Boundary Setting

The Seven Deadly Friendships

by Mary E. DeMuth • 2018

Some friendships quietly hollow you out. How to name them, leave them, and heal.

4.05

189

🧪 Toxic Friendships ✝️ Christian Relationships 🚧 Emotional Boundaries 🪞 Recognizing Narcissism 🔍 Relationship Discernment

The Seven Deadly Friendships 95%

Some friendships quietly hollow you out. How to name them, leave them, and heal.

by Mary E. DeMuth 2018

4.05

189 ratings

🧪 Toxic Friendships ✝️ Christian Relationships 🚧 Emotional Boundaries 🪞 Recognizing Narcissism 🔍 Relationship Discernment

Brave Enough to Be Broken

by Toni Collier • 2022

You can't heal what you refuse to face. A Christian guide through pain, prayer, community, and hope.

4.27

354

🕊️ Emotional Healing 🚧 Boundaries ✍️ Gratitude Practice ⚔️ Spiritual Warfare 🛋️ Christian Counseling

Brave Enough to Be Broken 95%

You can't heal what you refuse to face. A Christian guide through pain, prayer, community, and hope.

by Toni Collier 2022

4.27

354 ratings

🕊️ Emotional Healing 🚧 Boundaries ✍️ Gratitude Practice ⚔️ Spiritual Warfare 🛋️ Christian Counseling

Beyond Codependency

by Melody Beattie • 1989

Codependency doesn't end when you first set a boundary. Here's what happens after.

4.22

4k+

🌀 Codependency Recovery 🏠 Family Of Origin Work 🧱 Healthy Boundaries 💕 Self-Compassion Practices 🔄 Breaking Cycles

Beyond Codependency 95%

Codependency doesn't end when you first set a boundary. Here's what happens after.

by Melody Beattie 1989

4.22

4k+ ratings

🌀 Codependency Recovery 🏠 Family Of Origin Work 🧱 Healthy Boundaries 💕 Self-Compassion Practices 🔄 Breaking Cycles

Managing Your Emotions

by Joyce Meyer • 2023

Feelings are real but fickle. A 90-day devotional for building emotional steadiness on faith.

4.63

194

🕊️ Christian Devotional 💔 Emotional Healing 🤲 Forgiveness Practice 🔓 Shame Recovery 🔗 Codependency Healing

Managing Your Emotions 95%

Feelings are real but fickle. A 90-day devotional for building emotional steadiness on faith.

by Joyce Meyer 2023

4.63

194 ratings

🕊️ Christian Devotional 💔 Emotional Healing 🤲 Forgiveness Practice 🔓 Shame Recovery 🔗 Codependency Healing

The Emotionally Destructive Relationship

by Leslie Vernick • 2007

Learn to name a toxic relationship, speak up without guilt, and set boundaries that actually hold.

4.44

673

🧨 Toxic Relationships 🩹 Emotional Abuse Recovery 🚧 Boundary Setting ✝️ Christian Counseling 🎭 Emotional Manipulation

The Emotionally Destructive Relationship Summary

The Emotionally Destructive Relationship 95%

Learn to name a toxic relationship, speak up without guilt, and set boundaries that actually hold.

by Leslie Vernick 2007

4.44

673 ratings

🧨 Toxic Relationships 🩹 Emotional Abuse Recovery 🚧 Boundary Setting ✝️ Christian Counseling 🎭 Emotional Manipulation

Relational Intelligence

by Dharius Daniels • 2020

Four relationship categories that protect your purpose, and why some people need a different door.

4.34

900

🕊️ Christian Living 🤝 Relationship Management 🚧 Boundary Setting 💬 Difficult Conversations ☣️ Toxic Relationships

Relational Intelligence 95%

Four relationship categories that protect your purpose, and why some people need a different door.

by Dharius Daniels 2020

4.34

900 ratings

🕊️ Christian Living 🤝 Relationship Management 🚧 Boundary Setting 💬 Difficult Conversations ☣️ Toxic Relationships

Love Yourself First

by Krystle Laughter • 2020

Self-love isn't selfish: it's the standard that determines how everyone else treats you.

4.39

368

💔 Toxic Relationships ✝️ Christian Self-Help 🚧 Boundary Setting 💎 Self-Worth 🩹 Healing From Trauma

Love Yourself First 95%

Self-love isn't selfish: it's the standard that determines how everyone else treats you.

by Krystle Laughter 2020

4.39

368 ratings

💔 Toxic Relationships ✝️ Christian Self-Help 🚧 Boundary Setting 💎 Self-Worth 🩹 Healing From Trauma

The New Codependency

by Melody Beattie • 2008

Vanishing into other people is not love. The updated guide for boundaries that keep you here.

3.92

2k+

🧩 Codependency 🚧 Boundary Setting 💔 Family Dysfunction 🎭 Emotional Repression 🍃 Letting Go

The New Codependency 95%

Vanishing into other people is not love. The updated guide for boundaries that keep you here.

by Melody Beattie 2008

3.92

2k+ ratings

🧩 Codependency 🚧 Boundary Setting 💔 Family Dysfunction 🎭 Emotional Repression 🍃 Letting Go

Enemies of the Heart

by Andy Stanley • 2011

Four emotions act like unpaid debts in your relationships. Four counter-habits cancel each one.

4.33

3k+

🕊️ Christian Living 🙏 Spiritual Formation 💙 Emotional Health 📖 Biblical Counseling 🕯️ Forgiveness

Enemies of the Heart 94%

Four emotions act like unpaid debts in your relationships. Four counter-habits cancel each one.

by Andy Stanley 2011

4.33

3k+ ratings

🕊️ Christian Living 🙏 Spiritual Formation 💙 Emotional Health 📖 Biblical Counseling 🕯️ Forgiveness

Shame Interrupted

by Edward T. Welch • 2012

Shame tells you to hide. God's answer offers cleansing and a new identity you didn't earn.

4.26

1k+

📜 Biblical Counseling ❤️‍🩹 Healing Shame ✝️ Identity In Christ 🌊 Grace And Redemption 🐑 Pastoral Care

Shame Interrupted 94%

Shame tells you to hide. God's answer offers cleansing and a new identity you didn't earn.

by Edward T. Welch 2012

4.26

1k+ ratings

📜 Biblical Counseling ❤️‍🩹 Healing Shame ✝️ Identity In Christ 🌊 Grace And Redemption 🐑 Pastoral Care

Emotionally Healthy Discipleship

by Peter Scazzero • 2021

Grief, limits, and brokenness are not obstacles to spiritual growth. They are the curriculum.

4.42

2k+

🕊️ Spiritual Formation ⛪ Church Leadership 💚 Emotional Health 🧬 Family Systems 🕯️ Grief Processing

Emotionally Healthy Discipleship Summary

Emotionally Healthy Discipleship 94%

Grief, limits, and brokenness are not obstacles to spiritual growth. They are the curriculum.

by Peter Scazzero 2021

4.42

2k+ ratings

🕊️ Spiritual Formation ⛪ Church Leadership 💚 Emotional Health 🧬 Family Systems 🕯️ Grief Processing

Friendship for Grown-Ups

by Lisa Whelchel • 2010

Closeness to God depends on closeness to trustworthy friends. A former child star shows how.

3.69

353

🤝 Adult Friendships ✝️ Christian Friendship 🫂 Relational Vulnerability ⚖️ Conflict Resolution 🚧 Healthy Boundaries

Friendship for Grown-Ups 94%

Closeness to God depends on closeness to trustworthy friends. A former child star shows how.

by Lisa Whelchel 2010

3.69

353 ratings

🤝 Adult Friendships ✝️ Christian Friendship 🫂 Relational Vulnerability ⚖️ Conflict Resolution 🚧 Healthy Boundaries

Conquering Shame and Codependency

by Darlene Lancer • 2014

Shame drives codependency. Eight steps to disarm the inner critic and reclaim the self you lost.

4.22

422

🔗 Codependency Recovery 🩹 Shame Healing 🧠 Inner Critic Work 💬 Vulnerability Practice 🧸 Childhood Trauma

Conquering Shame and Codependency Summary

Conquering Shame and Codependency 94%

Shame drives codependency. Eight steps to disarm the inner critic and reclaim the self you lost.

by Darlene Lancer 2014

4.22

422 ratings

🔗 Codependency Recovery 🩹 Shame Healing 🧠 Inner Critic Work 💬 Vulnerability Practice 🧸 Childhood Trauma

Keep Your Love On

by Danny Silk • 2013

Fear made you a controller or a doormat. The connection skills that make you neither.

4.46

4k+

✝️ Christian Relationships 🧱 Boundaries 🗣️ Assertive Communication ⚔️ Conflict Resolution 🔗 Trust Building

Keep Your Love On 94%

Fear made you a controller or a doormat. The connection skills that make you neither.

by Danny Silk 2013

4.46

4k+ ratings

✝️ Christian Relationships 🧱 Boundaries 🗣️ Assertive Communication ⚔️ Conflict Resolution 🔗 Trust Building

Unglued

by Lysa TerKeurst • 2012

A biblical plan for mastering raw emotions when you want to explode or shut down.

4.16

15k+

🌊 Emotional Regulation ✝️ Biblical Self-Help 🗣️ Godly Communication 🧠 Thought Life 🛐 Sabbath Rest

Unglued 94%

A biblical plan for mastering raw emotions when you want to explode or shut down.

by Lysa TerKeurst 2012

4.16

15k+ ratings

🌊 Emotional Regulation ✝️ Biblical Self-Help 🗣️ Godly Communication 🧠 Thought Life 🛐 Sabbath Rest

When Loving Him Is Hurting You

by David Hawkins • 2017

Name the manipulation, set boundaries that hold, and rebuild a life you recognize.

4.29

436

💔 Emotional Abuse Recovery 🪞 Narcissistic Relationships ⛓️ Toxic Marriage 🔗 Trauma Bonding 🧱 Boundary Setting

When Loving Him Is Hurting You 94%

Name the manipulation, set boundaries that hold, and rebuild a life you recognize.

by David Hawkins 2017

4.29

436 ratings

💔 Emotional Abuse Recovery 🪞 Narcissistic Relationships ⛓️ Toxic Marriage 🔗 Trauma Bonding 🧱 Boundary Setting

The Emotionally Healthy Church

by Peter Scazzero • 2003

Emotionally wrecked Christians fill the pews: a discipleship model that stops looking away.

4.16

2k+

⛪ Church Leadership 🌱 Spiritual Formation 💚 Emotional Health 🏠 Family Of Origin 🚧 Healthy Boundaries

The Emotionally Healthy Church 94%

Emotionally wrecked Christians fill the pews: a discipleship model that stops looking away.

by Peter Scazzero 2003

4.16

2k+ ratings

⛪ Church Leadership 🌱 Spiritual Formation 💚 Emotional Health 🏠 Family Of Origin 🚧 Healthy Boundaries

The Joy of Being Selfish

by Michelle Elman • 2021

What if putting yourself first was the most generous move? Boundaries without the guilt spiral.

4.18

2k+

🚧 Boundary Setting 🎭 People Pleasing 🗣️ Assertiveness Training 🧘 Self-Care Practices 💭 Emotional Processing

The Joy of Being Selfish 94%

What if putting yourself first was the most generous move? Boundaries without the guilt spiral.

by Michelle Elman 2021

4.18

2k+ ratings

🚧 Boundary Setting 🎭 People Pleasing 🗣️ Assertiveness Training 🧘 Self-Care Practices 💭 Emotional Processing

Her True Worth

by Brittany Maher • 2022

Stop chasing affirmation that expires. At the cross, your worth was settled permanently.

4.29

714

✝️ Identity In Christ 🙇 People Pleasing 📱 Social Media And Faith 👀 Comparison Trap 👩 Christian Women

Her True Worth 94%

Stop chasing affirmation that expires. At the cross, your worth was settled permanently.

by Brittany Maher 2022

4.29

714 ratings

✝️ Identity In Christ 🙇 People Pleasing 📱 Social Media And Faith 👀 Comparison Trap 👩 Christian Women

Overwhelmed

by Perry Noble • 2014

Anxiety is not weak faith. A pastor's guide to trusting God when the bottom drops out.

4.03

694

🏠 Christian Living 😰 Overcoming Worry 🌧️ Depression And Faith 🔄 Repentance And Grace 🧠 Spiritual Mental Health

Overwhelmed 94%

Anxiety is not weak faith. A pastor's guide to trusting God when the bottom drops out.

by Perry Noble 2014

4.03

694 ratings

🏠 Christian Living 😰 Overcoming Worry 🌧️ Depression And Faith 🔄 Repentance And Grace 🧠 Spiritual Mental Health

Life After Narcissistic Abuse

by Cynthia Bailey-Rug • 2015

The abuser stays well; you get sick. A faith-anchored recovery for body, mind, and spirit.

🌀 Narcissistic Abuse ✝️ Faith-Based Recovery 🌪️ Toxic Family Dynamics 🎭 Gaslighting 🧠 C-Ptsd Recovery

Life After Narcissistic Abuse 94%

The abuser stays well; you get sick. A faith-anchored recovery for body, mind, and spirit.

by Cynthia Bailey-Rug 2015

🌀 Narcissistic Abuse ✝️ Faith-Based Recovery 🌪️ Toxic Family Dynamics 🎭 Gaslighting 🧠 C-Ptsd Recovery

Unwanted

by Jay Stringer • 2018

A therapist's survey found one thing that multiplies pornography use by 300. It isn't lust.

4.60

3k+

🕊️ Christian Counseling 🔗 Sex Addiction Recovery 💔 Shame And Trauma 🏠 Family Of Origin Work ⛓️ Purity Culture Critique

Unwanted 94%

A therapist's survey found one thing that multiplies pornography use by 300. It isn't lust.

by Jay Stringer 2018

4.60

3k+ ratings

🕊️ Christian Counseling 🔗 Sex Addiction Recovery 💔 Shame And Trauma 🏠 Family Of Origin Work ⛓️ Purity Culture Critique

Girl at the End of the World

by Elizabeth Esther • 2014

Her grandfather's cult taught her the world was ending. Motherhood taught her otherwise.

4.02

2k+

🧱 Cult Memoirs 🕊️ Religious Trauma ⛪ Spiritual Abuse 🔄 Breaking Cycles 🚪 Ex-Fundamentalist

Girl at the End of the World 94%

Her grandfather's cult taught her the world was ending. Motherhood taught her otherwise.

by Elizabeth Esther 2014

4.02

2k+ ratings

🧱 Cult Memoirs 🕊️ Religious Trauma ⛪ Spiritual Abuse 🔄 Breaking Cycles 🚪 Ex-Fundamentalist

The Best Yes

by Lysa TerKeurst • 2014

Love isn't supposed to leave you empty. Saying no without guilt and yes to what matters.

4.11

20k+

🕊️ Christian Women 🚧 Boundary Setting 🤔 Decision Making 🎭 People Pleasing ⏳ Overcommitment

The Best Yes 94%

Love isn't supposed to leave you empty. Saying no without guilt and yes to what matters.

by Lysa TerKeurst 2014

4.11

20k+ ratings

🕊️ Christian Women 🚧 Boundary Setting 🤔 Decision Making 🎭 People Pleasing ⏳ Overcommitment

Breaking Free of Rejection

by John Paul Jackson • 2004

Rejection burrows into identity and stays there. The spiritual practices that break its hold.

4.32

112

🩹 Inner Healing 🙏 Christian Self-Help 💔 Overcoming Rejection 🧠 Emotional Healing ✝️ Identity In Christ

Breaking Free of Rejection 94%

Rejection burrows into identity and stays there. The spiritual practices that break its hold.

by John Paul Jackson 2004

4.32

112 ratings

🩹 Inner Healing 🙏 Christian Self-Help 💔 Overcoming Rejection 🧠 Emotional Healing ✝️ Identity In Christ

The Disease to Please

by Harriet B. Braiker • 2000

Why needing everyone's approval works like an addiction, and the protocol for breaking free.

3.89

2k+

🎭 People-Pleasing 💉 Approval Addiction 🧱 Boundary Setting 🧠 Cognitive Behavioral 🗣️ Assertiveness Training

The Disease to Please 94%

Why needing everyone's approval works like an addiction, and the protocol for breaking free.

by Harriet B. Braiker 2000

3.89

2k+ ratings

🎭 People-Pleasing 💉 Approval Addiction 🧱 Boundary Setting 🧠 Cognitive Behavioral 🗣️ Assertiveness Training

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