50 Books like The Art of Showing Up

Frientimacy

by Shasta Nelson • 2016

Friendship is not about quantity. The depth you crave requires three simple but difficult practices.

3.80

840

👭 Adult Friendships 🤝 Social Connection 💬 Vulnerable Friendships 🌻 Positivity Practices 🔧 Friendship Maintenance

Frientimacy 97%

Friendship is not about quantity. The depth you crave requires three simple but difficult practices.

by Shasta Nelson 2016

3.80

840 ratings

👭 Adult Friendships 🤝 Social Connection 💬 Vulnerable Friendships 🌻 Positivity Practices 🔧 Friendship Maintenance

Platonic

by Marisa G. Franco • 2022

Why adult friendship is harder than romance, and the attachment science that fixes it.

4.04

8k+

🤝 Adult Friendships 🔗 Attachment Theory 💔 Vulnerability 🎭 Authenticity ⚖️ Conflict Resolution

Platonic 97%

Why adult friendship is harder than romance, and the attachment science that fixes it.

by Marisa G. Franco 2022

4.04

8k+ ratings

🤝 Adult Friendships 🔗 Attachment Theory 💔 Vulnerability 🎭 Authenticity ⚖️ Conflict Resolution

The Friendship Formula

by Caroline Millington • 2019

Adult friendship is harder than it looks. The science of how many hours closeness actually takes.

3.24

164

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Adult Friendships 🔬 Friendship Science ❤️‍🩹 Social Health 💛 Platonic Friendship 🏚️ Loneliness Epidemic

The Friendship Formula 97%

Adult friendship is harder than it looks. The science of how many hours closeness actually takes.

by Caroline Millington 2019

3.24

164 ratings

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Adult Friendships 🔬 Friendship Science ❤️‍🩹 Social Health 💛 Platonic Friendship 🏚️ Loneliness Epidemic

The Friendship Crisis

by Marla Paul • 2004

Why making friends after 30 feels impossible, and the concrete steps that actually work.

3.18

254

👫 Adult Friendships 🤝 Making Friends 💔 Combatting Loneliness 💚 Platonic Love 🧘 Social Wellness

The Friendship Crisis 97%

Why making friends after 30 feels impossible, and the concrete steps that actually work.

by Marla Paul 2004

3.18

254 ratings

👫 Adult Friendships 🤝 Making Friends 💔 Combatting Loneliness 💚 Platonic Love 🧘 Social Wellness

Belong

by Radha Agrawal • 2018

Loneliness harms like alcoholism. A method to find true community, not just more contacts.

3.60

1k+

🏘️ Community Building 👥 Adult Friendships 🏠 Belonging ⚡ Social Energy 😊 Positive Psychology

Belong 97%

Loneliness harms like alcoholism. A method to find true community, not just more contacts.

by Radha Agrawal 2018

3.60

1k+ ratings

🏘️ Community Building 👥 Adult Friendships 🏠 Belonging ⚡ Social Energy 😊 Positive Psychology

You Will Find Your People

by Lane Moore • 2023

TV promised you ride-or-die friends by 25. The real playbook for finding them in adulthood.

3.25

3k+

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Adult Friendships 🤝 Platonic Relationships 🧠 Attachment Theory 🔧 Friendship Maintenance 🚧 Boundary Setting

You Will Find Your People 96%

TV promised you ride-or-die friends by 25. The real playbook for finding them in adulthood.

by Lane Moore 2023

3.25

3k+ ratings

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Adult Friendships 🤝 Platonic Relationships 🧠 Attachment Theory 🔧 Friendship Maintenance 🚧 Boundary Setting

We Should Get Together

by Kat Vellos • 2020

Loneliness hits like a smoking habit. The cure isn't more friends; it's a skill we forgot.

3.85

954

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Adult Friendship 😔 Loneliness Epidemic 🫀 Social Health 💬 Platonic Intimacy 🌱 Friendship Maintenance

We Should Get Together 96%

Loneliness hits like a smoking habit. The cure isn't more friends; it's a skill we forgot.

by Kat Vellos 2020

3.85

954 ratings

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Adult Friendship 😔 Loneliness Epidemic 🫀 Social Health 💬 Platonic Intimacy 🌱 Friendship Maintenance

Modern Friendship

by Anna Goldfarb • 2024

Not all friends are the same tier. A system for categorizing, maintaining, and deepening each one.

3.74

884

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Adult Friendships 🧰 Friendship Maintenance 🎯 Intentional Friendship 🗂️ Friendship Frameworks 📅 Proactive Socializing

Modern Friendship 96%

Not all friends are the same tier. A system for categorizing, maintaining, and deepening each one.

by Anna Goldfarb 2024

3.74

884 ratings

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Adult Friendships 🧰 Friendship Maintenance 🎯 Intentional Friendship 🗂️ Friendship Frameworks 📅 Proactive Socializing

The Friendship Fix

by Andrea Bonior • 2011

Adult friendship is a skill: the manual for making, keeping, and ending them with care.

3.18

122

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Adult Friendships 🧠 Friendship Psychology 🤝 Making Friends ☣️ Toxic Friendships 🧱 Boundary Setting

The Friendship Fix 96%

Adult friendship is a skill: the manual for making, keeping, and ending them with care.

by Andrea Bonior 2011

3.18

122 ratings

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Adult Friendships 🧠 Friendship Psychology 🤝 Making Friends ☣️ Toxic Friendships 🧱 Boundary Setting

Here to Make Friends

by Hope Kelaher • 2020

Proximity made your childhood friends. Here is the intentional system for making them as an adult.

3.19

155

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Adult Friendships 😔 Loneliness 🔗 Attachment Theory 🗣️ Social Skills 💗 Emotional Vulnerability

Here to Make Friends 96%

Proximity made your childhood friends. Here is the intentional system for making them as an adult.

by Hope Kelaher 2020

3.19

155 ratings

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Adult Friendships 😔 Loneliness 🔗 Attachment Theory 🗣️ Social Skills 💗 Emotional Vulnerability

Friendship in the Age of Loneliness

by Adam Smiley Poswolsky • 2021

You have hundreds of contacts and maybe one real friend. The playbook for rebuilding your circle.

3.38

426

👥 Adult Friendship 🤝 Social Connection 😔 Loneliness Epidemic 🏘️ Community Building 🕯️ Rituals And Traditions

Friendship in the Age of Loneliness Summary

Friendship in the Age of Loneliness 95%

You have hundreds of contacts and maybe one real friend. The playbook for rebuilding your circle.

by Adam Smiley Poswolsky 2021

3.38

426 ratings

👥 Adult Friendship 🤝 Social Connection 😔 Loneliness Epidemic 🏘️ Community Building 🕯️ Rituals And Traditions

The Friendship Factor

by Alan Loy McGinnis • 1978

Marriages and careers rise and fall on one skill you were never taught: making friends.

4.15

1k+

🛠️ Friendship Building 💞 Relational Intimacy 👂 Active Listening 🫣 Relational Vulnerability 🤝 Conflict Resolution

The Friendship Factor 95%

Marriages and careers rise and fall on one skill you were never taught: making friends.

by Alan Loy McGinnis 1978

4.15

1k+ ratings

🛠️ Friendship Building 💞 Relational Intimacy 👂 Active Listening 🫣 Relational Vulnerability 🤝 Conflict Resolution

The Laws of Connection

by David Robson • 2024

Social bonds predict longevity better than diet or exercise. The skills to build them are learnable.

3.74

434

🧬 Friendship Science 😰 Social Anxiety 💬 Conversation Skills 🧠 Cognitive Biases 🌍 Loneliness Epidemic

The Laws of Connection 95%

Social bonds predict longevity better than diet or exercise. The skills to build them are learnable.

by David Robson 2024

3.74

434 ratings

🧬 Friendship Science 😰 Social Anxiety 💬 Conversation Skills 🧠 Cognitive Biases 🌍 Loneliness Epidemic

The Art and Science of Connection

by Kasley Killam • 2024

Identify your social style and strengthen your relationships, adding years to your life.

3.85

637

🔬 Relationship Science 😔 Loneliness Epidemic 🏘️ Community Building 👫 Friendship 😊 Positive Psychology

The Art and Science of Connection Summary

The Art and Science of Connection 95%

Identify your social style and strengthen your relationships, adding years to your life.

by Kasley Killam 2024

3.85

637 ratings

🔬 Relationship Science 😔 Loneliness Epidemic 🏘️ Community Building 👫 Friendship 😊 Positive Psychology

Fighting for Our Friendships

by Danielle Bayard Jackson • 2024

Why female friendships fray and how to repair them from first fight to last goodbye.

4.14

1k+

👯 Female Friendships ⚡ Conflict Resolution 🛡️ Boundary Setting 🎭 People Pleasing 👁️ Relational Aggression

Fighting for Our Friendships 95%

Why female friendships fray and how to repair them from first fight to last goodbye.

by Danielle Bayard Jackson 2024

4.14

1k+ ratings

👯 Female Friendships ⚡ Conflict Resolution 🛡️ Boundary Setting 🎭 People Pleasing 👁️ Relational Aggression

When Friendship Hurts

by Jan Yager • 2002

Diagnose toxic friendships, set boundaries that hold, and know when to walk away.

3.46

336

🤝 Friendship Advice 🍄 Toxic Friendships 🚧 Boundary Setting 🕊️ Conflict Resolution 💔 Betrayal Recovery

When Friendship Hurts 95%

Diagnose toxic friendships, set boundaries that hold, and know when to walk away.

by Jan Yager 2002

3.46

336 ratings

🤝 Friendship Advice 🍄 Toxic Friendships 🚧 Boundary Setting 🕊️ Conflict Resolution 💔 Betrayal Recovery

1000+ Little Habits of Happy, Successful Relationships

by Marc Chernoff • 2021

The tiny habits that hold relationships together: presence, boundaries, and the self-worth to start.

3.76

255

💑 Relationship Advice 🗣️ Interpersonal Skills 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Family Dynamics 👯 Friendship 💎 Self-Worth

1000+ Little Habits of Happy, Successful Relationships Summary

1000+ Little Habits of Happy, Successful Relationships 95%

The tiny habits that hold relationships together: presence, boundaries, and the self-worth to start.

by Marc Chernoff 2021

3.76

255 ratings

💑 Relationship Advice 🗣️ Interpersonal Skills 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Family Dynamics 👯 Friendship 💎 Self-Worth

Soul Friends

by Stephen Cope • 2017

You are not self-made. Six distinct relationships built your personality, one attachment at a time.

4.23

164

🧩 Attachment Theory 👥 Friendship Psychology 🔧 Attachment Repair 🤝 Relational Psychology 🌱 Positive Psychology

Soul Friends 95%

You are not self-made. Six distinct relationships built your personality, one attachment at a time.

by Stephen Cope 2017

4.23

164 ratings

🧩 Attachment Theory 👥 Friendship Psychology 🔧 Attachment Repair 🤝 Relational Psychology 🌱 Positive Psychology

Big Friendship

by Aminatou Sow • 2020

Friendship is the only important relationship we expect to maintain without instruction.

3.74

25k+

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Adult Friendship 👯 Women's Friendships 🏠 Chosen Family 🔧 Friendship Maintenance 🩹 Conflict Repair

Big Friendship 94%

Friendship is the only important relationship we expect to maintain without instruction.

by Aminatou Sow 2020

3.74

25k+ ratings

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Adult Friendship 👯 Women's Friendships 🏠 Chosen Family 🔧 Friendship Maintenance 🩹 Conflict Repair

The Friendship Cure

by Kate Leaver • 2018

Loneliness rivals tobacco as a killer. Friendship is an evolutionary necessity, not a luxury.

3.32

544

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Social Connection 🏥 Loneliness Epidemic 👫 Adult Friendships 📱 Digital Relationships 🔬 Relationship Science

The Friendship Cure 94%

Loneliness rivals tobacco as a killer. Friendship is an evolutionary necessity, not a luxury.

by Kate Leaver 2018

3.32

544 ratings

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Social Connection 🏥 Loneliness Epidemic 👫 Adult Friendships 📱 Digital Relationships 🔬 Relationship Science

Needy

by Mara Glatzel • 2023

Your needs aren't too much. Trust your compass, set boundaries, and stop performing for approval.

4.28

194

❤️ Self-Compassion 🧠 Emotional Needs 🚧 Boundary Setting 🔐 Self-Trust 🌱 Authentic Living

Needy 94%

Your needs aren't too much. Trust your compass, set boundaries, and stop performing for approval.

by Mara Glatzel 2023

4.28

194 ratings

❤️ Self-Compassion 🧠 Emotional Needs 🚧 Boundary Setting 🔐 Self-Trust 🌱 Authentic Living

Friendship for Grown-Ups

by Lisa Whelchel • 2010

Closeness to God depends on closeness to trustworthy friends. A former child star shows how.

3.69

353

🤝 Adult Friendships ✝️ Christian Friendship 🫂 Relational Vulnerability ⚖️ Conflict Resolution 🚧 Healthy Boundaries

Friendship for Grown-Ups 94%

Closeness to God depends on closeness to trustworthy friends. A former child star shows how.

by Lisa Whelchel 2010

3.69

353 ratings

🤝 Adult Friendships ✝️ Christian Friendship 🫂 Relational Vulnerability ⚖️ Conflict Resolution 🚧 Healthy Boundaries

The Assertiveness Guide for Women

by Julie de Azevedo Hanks • 2016

Speak up, set limits, stop people-pleasing. The missing piece is your attachment style.

3.95

907

💬 Women's Assertiveness 🚧 Boundary Setting 🧸 Attachment Theory 🧠 Emotional Intelligence 💖 Self-Compassion

The Assertiveness Guide for Women Summary

The Assertiveness Guide for Women 94%

Speak up, set limits, stop people-pleasing. The missing piece is your attachment style.

by Julie de Azevedo Hanks 2016

3.95

907 ratings

💬 Women's Assertiveness 🚧 Boundary Setting 🧸 Attachment Theory 🧠 Emotional Intelligence 💖 Self-Compassion

Making Great Relationships

by Rick Hanson • 2023

Every relationship has a hidden partner: your relationship with yourself. Fix that one first.

3.70

281

🫂 Self Compassion 🧘 Emotional Regulation 🧠 Mindfulness Practice 🤝 Conflict Resolution 🕊️ Forgiveness

Making Great Relationships 94%

Every relationship has a hidden partner: your relationship with yourself. Fix that one first.

by Rick Hanson 2023

3.70

281 ratings

🫂 Self Compassion 🧘 Emotional Regulation 🧠 Mindfulness Practice 🤝 Conflict Resolution 🕊️ Forgiveness

Find Your People

by Jennie Allen • 2022

More lethal than smoking: chronic loneliness. The cure is five people who actually know you.

3.94

21k+

🧩 Loneliness Epidemic ⛪ Christian Community 🕊️ Spiritual Friendship 💔 Vulnerability 📍 Proximity Friendship

Find Your People 94%

More lethal than smoking: chronic loneliness. The cure is five people who actually know you.

by Jennie Allen 2022

3.94

21k+ ratings

🧩 Loneliness Epidemic ⛪ Christian Community 🕊️ Spiritual Friendship 💔 Vulnerability 📍 Proximity Friendship

Emotional Intelligence Pocketbook

by Gill Hasson • 2017

How to read what bodies say, hear what voices hide, and finally trust your gut.

3.74

181

🧠 Emotional Intelligence 🔍 Self Awareness 🌊 Managing Emotions 👂 Active Listening 🚧 Setting Boundaries

Emotional Intelligence Pocketbook Summary

Emotional Intelligence Pocketbook 94%

How to read what bodies say, hear what voices hide, and finally trust your gut.

by Gill Hasson 2017

3.74

181 ratings

🧠 Emotional Intelligence 🔍 Self Awareness 🌊 Managing Emotions 👂 Active Listening 🚧 Setting Boundaries

Radical Friendship

by Kate Johnson • 2021

How to build friendships that survive hard times, hold truth, and push back against injustice.

4.13

467

🧠 Buddhist Psychology ✊ Engaged Buddhism 💗 Loving-Kindness 🗣️ Authentic Communication 🕊️ Spiritual Friendships

Radical Friendship 94%

How to build friendships that survive hard times, hold truth, and push back against injustice.

by Kate Johnson 2021

4.13

467 ratings

🧠 Buddhist Psychology ✊ Engaged Buddhism 💗 Loving-Kindness 🗣️ Authentic Communication 🕊️ Spiritual Friendships

Plays Well with Others

by Eric Barker • 2022

Love mimics mental illness, your people radar barely works, and the fix is stronger signals.

4.09

3k+

🧪 Relationship Science 🤝 Adult Friendships 🗣️ Conflict Resolution 🏙️ Loneliness Epidemic 🌐 Belonging And Community

Plays Well with Others 94%

Love mimics mental illness, your people radar barely works, and the fix is stronger signals.

by Eric Barker 2022

4.09

3k+ ratings

🧪 Relationship Science 🤝 Adult Friendships 🗣️ Conflict Resolution 🏙️ Loneliness Epidemic 🌐 Belonging And Community

Setting Boundaries That Stick

by Juliane Taylor Shore • 2023

Boundaries fail when you feel unsafe. Rewire your brain's threat response, and the words stick.

4.32

260

🧱 Boundary Setting 🧠 Interpersonal Neurobiology 💗 Self-Compassion 🧘 Emotional Regulation 🤲 Somatic Practices

Setting Boundaries That Stick 94%

Boundaries fail when you feel unsafe. Rewire your brain's threat response, and the words stick.

by Juliane Taylor Shore 2023

4.32

260 ratings

🧱 Boundary Setting 🧠 Interpersonal Neurobiology 💗 Self-Compassion 🧘 Emotional Regulation 🤲 Somatic Practices

Improve Your Social Skills

by Daniel Wendler • 2014

Two signals, one question, and a one-percent daily upgrade: the blueprint for social ease.

3.74

639

🧠 Social Skills 🧍 Body Language 💬 Conversation Skills 😰 Social Anxiety 🤝 Friendship Building

Improve Your Social Skills 94%

Two signals, one question, and a one-percent daily upgrade: the blueprint for social ease.

by Daniel Wendler 2014

3.74

639 ratings

🧠 Social Skills 🧍 Body Language 💬 Conversation Skills 😰 Social Anxiety 🤝 Friendship Building

A Toolkit for Modern Life

by Emma Hepburn • 2020

Fifty-three ways to manage your emotional capacity: spot the drains, build the reserves.

4.20

342

🎢 Emotional Regulation 🧠 Cognitive Behavioral Therapy 💖 Self-Compassion 🤝 Social Connection 🪞 Cognitive Distortions

A Toolkit for Modern Life 94%

Fifty-three ways to manage your emotional capacity: spot the drains, build the reserves.

by Emma Hepburn 2020

4.20

342 ratings

🎢 Emotional Regulation 🧠 Cognitive Behavioral Therapy 💖 Self-Compassion 🤝 Social Connection 🪞 Cognitive Distortions

The Shift

by Tinx • 2023

Stop auditioning. The dating expert who'll teach you to make your life the thing you're building.

3.93

10k+

🗓️ Dating Advice 💔 Heartbreak Recovery 🧘 Emotional Self-Reliance 🚶 Solo Adventures 👯 Female Friendships

The Shift 94%

Stop auditioning. The dating expert who'll teach you to make your life the thing you're building.

by Tinx 2023

3.93

10k+ ratings

🗓️ Dating Advice 💔 Heartbreak Recovery 🧘 Emotional Self-Reliance 🚶 Solo Adventures 👯 Female Friendships

The 2-Hour Cocktail Party

by Nick Gray • 2022

Not a natural networker? Two hours on a Tuesday with name tags does the work for you.

4.15

857

👥 Adult Friendship 🤝 Professional Networking 🎉 Hosting Gatherings 🔗 Weak Ties 🏘️ Community Building

The 2-Hour Cocktail Party 94%

Not a natural networker? Two hours on a Tuesday with name tags does the work for you.

by Nick Gray 2022

4.15

857 ratings

👥 Adult Friendship 🤝 Professional Networking 🎉 Hosting Gatherings 🔗 Weak Ties 🏘️ Community Building

The Joy of Connections

by Ruth Westheimer • 2024

100 ways to beat loneliness, from the 95-year-old therapist who lost everyone and rebuilt.

3.63

972

🫂 Loneliness Recovery 🏘️ Community Engagement 👥 Building Friendships 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Family Relationships 💪 Social Confidence

The Joy of Connections 94%

100 ways to beat loneliness, from the 95-year-old therapist who lost everyone and rebuilt.

by Ruth Westheimer 2024

3.63

972 ratings

🫂 Loneliness Recovery 🏘️ Community Engagement 👥 Building Friendships 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Family Relationships 💪 Social Confidence

Party of One

by Meghan Keane • 2024

Singlehood is not a waiting room. A practical guide to building a fulfilling life on your own terms.

3.74

456

🧘 Solo Fulfillment 💬 Single Stigma 🧠 Emotional Regulation 🔄 Cognitive Reframing 🗣️ Self-Talk

Party of One 93%

Singlehood is not a waiting room. A practical guide to building a fulfilling life on your own terms.

by Meghan Keane 2024

3.74

456 ratings

🧘 Solo Fulfillment 💬 Single Stigma 🧠 Emotional Regulation 🔄 Cognitive Reframing 🗣️ Self-Talk

The Social Skills Guidebook

by Chris MacLeod • 2016

Real social confidence is quiet, earned, and built while the nerves are still firing.

3.71

735

😰 Social Anxiety 💬 Conversation Skills 🤝 Friendship Building 🧩 Cognitive Behavioral Therapy 💚 Self-Acceptance

The Social Skills Guidebook 93%

Real social confidence is quiet, earned, and built while the nerves are still firing.

by Chris MacLeod 2016

3.71

735 ratings

😰 Social Anxiety 💬 Conversation Skills 🤝 Friendship Building 🧩 Cognitive Behavioral Therapy 💚 Self-Acceptance

The Power of E.Q.

by Patrick King • 2023

How to read a room, say no cleanly, and apologize so it sticks.

4.25

🧠 Emotional Intelligence 🗣️ Social Skills 👂 Active Listening ✋ Assertiveness 👀 Nonverbal Communication

The Power of E.Q. 93%

How to read a room, say no cleanly, and apologize so it sticks.

by Patrick King 2023

4.25

52 ratings

🧠 Emotional Intelligence 🗣️ Social Skills 👂 Active Listening ✋ Assertiveness 👀 Nonverbal Communication

The Book of Moods

by Lauren Martin • 2020

A system for decoding your emotional triggers, built from one woman's study of her worst moods.

3.84

5k+

🎭 Mood Regulation 🎯 Emotional Triggers 🔄 Cognitive Reframing 💖 Self-Compassion 🧘 Mindfulness

The Book of Moods 93%

A system for decoding your emotional triggers, built from one woman's study of her worst moods.

by Lauren Martin 2020

3.84

5k+ ratings

🎭 Mood Regulation 🎯 Emotional Triggers 🔄 Cognitive Reframing 💖 Self-Compassion 🧘 Mindfulness

Too Nice for Your Own Good

by Duke Robinson • 1997

Nice people finish drained, resentful, and overlooked. Specific skills that break the pattern.

3.46

2k+

🎭 People Pleasing 🚧 Interpersonal Boundaries 🗣️ Assertiveness Training 💬 Emotional Honesty 😤 Anger Management

Too Nice for Your Own Good 93%

Nice people finish drained, resentful, and overlooked. Specific skills that break the pattern.

by Duke Robinson 1997

3.46

2k+ ratings

🎭 People Pleasing 🚧 Interpersonal Boundaries 🗣️ Assertiveness Training 💬 Emotional Honesty 😤 Anger Management

The Art of Empathy

by Karla McLaren • 2013

Empathy is a practice, not a trait. The six skills and boundaries that make connection sustainable.

3.89

473

🧠 Emotional Intelligence 🤝 Empathy Skills 🌊 Emotion Regulation 🚧 Boundary Setting 💧 Compassion Fatigue

The Art of Empathy 93%

Empathy is a practice, not a trait. The six skills and boundaries that make connection sustainable.

by Karla McLaren 2013

3.89

473 ratings

🧠 Emotional Intelligence 🤝 Empathy Skills 🌊 Emotion Regulation 🚧 Boundary Setting 💧 Compassion Fatigue

The Joy of Being Selfish

by Michelle Elman • 2021

What if putting yourself first was the most generous move? Boundaries without the guilt spiral.

4.18

2k+

🚧 Boundary Setting 🎭 People Pleasing 🗣️ Assertiveness Training 🧘 Self-Care Practices 💭 Emotional Processing

The Joy of Being Selfish 93%

What if putting yourself first was the most generous move? Boundaries without the guilt spiral.

by Michelle Elman 2021

4.18

2k+ ratings

🚧 Boundary Setting 🎭 People Pleasing 🗣️ Assertiveness Training 🧘 Self-Care Practices 💭 Emotional Processing

Don't Tell Me to Relax

by Ralph De La Rosa • 2020

When staying calm fails: parts work and Buddhist tools to turn emotional chaos into real resilience.

3.77

142

🧠 Emotional Intelligence 💖 Self-Compassion 🧩 Internal Family Systems 🧘 Mindfulness Practice 🛡️ Boundary Setting

Don't Tell Me to Relax 93%

When staying calm fails: parts work and Buddhist tools to turn emotional chaos into real resilience.

by Ralph De La Rosa 2020

3.77

142 ratings

🧠 Emotional Intelligence 💖 Self-Compassion 🧩 Internal Family Systems 🧘 Mindfulness Practice 🛡️ Boundary Setting

The Woman's Comfort Book

by Jennifer Louden • 1992

Self-nurture for depleted women: how to build rituals, set boundaries, and stop giving from nothing.

3.97

1k+

📗 Self-Care Guides 🧠 Inner Critic Work 🕯️ Comfort Rituals 🍽️ Mindful Eating 🚧 Boundary Setting

The Woman's Comfort Book 93%

Self-nurture for depleted women: how to build rituals, set boundaries, and stop giving from nothing.

by Jennifer Louden 1992

3.97

1k+ ratings

📗 Self-Care Guides 🧠 Inner Critic Work 🕯️ Comfort Rituals 🍽️ Mindful Eating 🚧 Boundary Setting

I Love Me More

by Jenna Banks • 2022

A skill, not a feeling: how daily self-love rebuilds your boundaries, career, and finances.

3.78

446

❤️ Self-Love 🚧 Boundary Setting 🛡️ Emotional Resilience 🧠 Inner Critic 🎭 People Pleasing

I Love Me More 93%

A skill, not a feeling: how daily self-love rebuilds your boundaries, career, and finances.

by Jenna Banks 2022

3.78

446 ratings

❤️ Self-Love 🚧 Boundary Setting 🛡️ Emotional Resilience 🧠 Inner Critic 🎭 People Pleasing

Emotional Intelligence

by Brenda Roberts • 2016

Read body language, pause before reacting, and take charge of your emotions: a practical EQ primer.

2.00

🧠 Emotional Intelligence 🧘 Emotional Regulation 🗣️ Body Language 👂 Active Listening 🎯 Personal Accountability

Emotional Intelligence 93%

Read body language, pause before reacting, and take charge of your emotions: a practical EQ primer.

by Brenda Roberts 2016

2.00

1 ratings

🧠 Emotional Intelligence 🧘 Emotional Regulation 🗣️ Body Language 👂 Active Listening 🎯 Personal Accountability

How to Win Friends and Influence People for Teen Girls

by Donna Dale Carnegie • 2005

Carnegie's classic rules for teen girls: how to make friends, defuse drama, and be heard.

3.95

1k+

👥 Teen Social Skills 👭 Teen Friendships 🤝 Human Relations 💬 Interpersonal Communication 📚 Classic Self-Help

How to Win Friends and Influence People for Teen Girls Summary

How to Win Friends and Influence People for Teen Girls 93%

Carnegie's classic rules for teen girls: how to make friends, defuse drama, and be heard.

by Donna Dale Carnegie 2005

3.95

1k+ ratings

👥 Teen Social Skills 👭 Teen Friendships 🤝 Human Relations 💬 Interpersonal Communication 📚 Classic Self-Help

The Sugar Jar

by Yasmine Cheyenne • 2022

A jar, some sugar, a lid: the visual boundary practice that stops people-pleasing before it starts.

3.96

801

🚧 Boundary Work 🍯 Energy Protection 🙇 People Pleasing 💖 Self-Acceptance 🧠 Emotional Awareness

The Sugar Jar 93%

A jar, some sugar, a lid: the visual boundary practice that stops people-pleasing before it starts.

by Yasmine Cheyenne 2022

3.96

801 ratings

🚧 Boundary Work 🍯 Energy Protection 🙇 People Pleasing 💖 Self-Acceptance 🧠 Emotional Awareness

Insecure in Love

by Leslie Becker-Phelps • 2014

Why anxious attachment makes love feel unsafe, and self-compassion skills that slowly rewire it.

3.92

3k+

🧠 Attachment Theory 😰 Anxious Attachment 💗 Self Compassion 🎯 Emotional Regulation 🗣️ Communication Skills

Insecure in Love 93%

Why anxious attachment makes love feel unsafe, and self-compassion skills that slowly rewire it.

by Leslie Becker-Phelps 2014

3.92

3k+ ratings

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The Five Keys to Mindful Communication

by Susan Gillis Chapman • 2012

Notice the moment a conversation starts closing down, and reopen it before connection is lost.

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Notice the moment a conversation starts closing down, and reopen it before connection is lost.

by Susan Gillis Chapman 2012

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🗣️ Interpersonal Communication 🧘 Buddhist Psychology 👂 Deep Listening 💛 Compassionate Communication 🤝 Conflict Resolution

Emotional Intelligence Habits

by Travis Bradberry • 2023

The four emotional skills linked to a $29,000 raise, and the daily practices that build them.

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🧠 Emotional Intelligence 🔄 Habit Formation 🤝 Social Skills 🕊️ Conflict Resolution 😌 Stress Management

Emotional Intelligence Habits 93%

The four emotional skills linked to a $29,000 raise, and the daily practices that build them.

by Travis Bradberry 2023

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🧠 Emotional Intelligence 🔄 Habit Formation 🤝 Social Skills 🕊️ Conflict Resolution 😌 Stress Management

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