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Writing Down Your Soul

Writing Down Your Soul

How to Activate and Listen to the Extraordinary Voice Within
by Janet Conner 2009 253 pages
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Key Takeaways

1. The Voice Within: Your Direct Line to Divine Wisdom

There is a Voice inside you. There is a Voice inside everyone.

Connect with ease. Deep soul writing is a profound yet simple practice for connecting with the extraordinary Voice within. This Voice is always present, guiding, encouraging, and loving you, waiting for you to pause and listen. It's not trying to hide; it's actively seeking you, knowing the rich conversation and guidance that awaits.

Beyond traditional practices. While meditation, prayer, and other spiritual practices are valuable, writing offers a unique pathway. It focuses your attention so clearly on inner wisdom that guidance and love become undeniable. This method doesn't replace existing beliefs or practices; it enriches them, providing direct and immediate access to divine consciousness.

Embrace transformation. Engaging with this inner Voice will profoundly change your life. Once you open this door in your soul, you cannot truly close it again. You'll find yourself contemplating new ideas, asking deeper questions, and receiving guidance that may challenge your expectations, leading to more opportunities, challenges, and ultimately, miracles.

2. Your Story is Your Healer: Open Up and Tell the Truth

The Voice simply listens. And there is no greater gift than that.

Unburden your heart. The first step in deep soul writing is to open your heart and mind completely, telling your story without reservation. Unlike human conversations, where judgment and discomfort often lead to guarded communication, the Voice offers an "all-accepting listener" that hears your deepest feelings and secrets without criticism or recrimination.

Truth sets you free. Society often conditions us to suppress intense emotions like anger, fury, adoration, or deep pain. However, these emotions fit perfectly into your dialogue with the Voice. Writing fast and ignoring conventional rules helps bypass your internal editor, allowing the raw, unvarnished truth to pour onto the page. This uninhibited expression is crucial for healing.

Discover buried narratives. We all carry buried stories—traumas, secrets, or unacknowledged feelings—that impact our lives. Writing provides a safe container to unearth these narratives, even those you've forgotten or never told yourself. By bringing these stories to light, you begin to understand their impact and initiate the healing process, transforming pain into profound self-discovery.

3. The Science of Soul Writing: How Writing Transforms Your Brain

Health gains appear to require translating experiences into language.

Inhibition's cost. Research by Dr. James Pennebaker shows that inhibiting traumatic experiences can lead to significant health problems. Conversely, expressive writing—detailing both traumatic events and the deepest thoughts and feelings about them—improves physical health, immune function, mood, and even academic performance. The act of translating experience into language is key to these benefits.

Bodymind connection. Dr. Candace Pert's work on "molecules of emotion" reveals that blocked emotions can constrict blood flow to the brain, leading to "stuckness" in old patterns. Writing helps release these blockages by bringing awareness to past experiences stored in cellular receptors, creating a biochemical potential for change and growth.

Rewiring your brain. Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) experts Robert and Michelle Colt explain that writing engages multiple brain modalities (visual, auditory, kinesthetic), shifting brain waves from high-stress beta to creative alpha and insightful theta states. This process creates new neural pathways, literally moving your brain from old, negative habits to new, positive ones. Consistent writing for 30 days is essential to solidify these new pathways.

4. Cultivate Your Sacred Writing Ritual: Consistency and Intention are Key

The time of day doesn't matter; making a commitment and keeping it does.

Prioritize your spiritual practice. Creating a consistent schedule for writing is paramount. Just as "pay yourself first" benefits finances, "tell the Voice first" yields spiritual dividends. Dedicate 10-15 minutes daily, ideally at the same time, to establish a pattern that signals your commitment to the Voice and helps overcome internal resistance.

Overcome distractions. The moment you commit to spiritual practice, distractions often arise—phone calls, chores, sudden anxieties. Recognize these as your "little spirit's frightened efforts" to avoid change. Consciously choose to sit down and write, even if briefly, to assert control over your time and energy, protecting this sacred conversation.

Craft your personal ritual. A pre-writing ritual helps set your intention and prepare for deep dialogue. This can include:

  • Deep breathing: Slows heart rate, oxygenates the brain, fosters alpha waves.
  • Setting intention: A short prayer or blessing, affirming your worthiness and readiness.
  • Reading: A brief passage from sacred texts or inspirational books to focus your mind.
  • Salutation: Begin with "Dear Voice" or a name that resonates with you.
  • Sensory engagement: Lighting a candle, having water nearby, or touching your third eye can deepen the experience.

5. Listen with Your Spiritual Ear: Ask Profound Questions, Live the Answers

We must listen with our spiritual ear, the one inside, and this is very different from deciding in advance what is right and what is wrong and then seeking to promote our own agenda.

Deep listening to self. As you write, you begin to hear yourself, discerning needs, fears, and joys beyond the surface. This "spiritual listening" involves perceiving the essence within your words, connecting with your core self. The Voice listens perfectly, and through this practice, you learn to listen to yourself with the same non-judgmental, open attention.

Questions unlock wisdom. To access the vast information beyond your conscious mind—from your subconscious to the collective unconscious and the quantum field—ask questions. Avoid unproductive formats like yes/no, "why me?", future-focused, or questions about others. Instead, formulate "compassionate questions" that are open-ended, self-focused, and probe for understanding and meaning.

Live the questions. The relationship between questions and answers is not linear; answers often reside within the questions themselves. As you ask profound questions, your thinking shifts, offering an "eagle-eye view" of your life. Rilke's wisdom encourages patience: "Live the questions now. Perhaps then, someday, far in the future, you will gradually, without even noticing it, live your way to the answer."

6. Embrace Your Worthiness: Give Yourself Permission to Receive Miracles

Everything you ask and pray for, believe that you have it already, and it will be yours.

Unlock your receiving. The universe is abundant, but your ability to receive its blessings and guidance depends on your belief in your own worthiness. If you don't believe you deserve good things, you unconsciously block them. This "deserving piece" is a crucial neural pathway to examine and transform.

The "I Deserve" exercise. Reflect on statements like "I deserve to be happy" or "I deserve financial freedom." Identify which ones resonate deeply and which trigger resistance. The ones you resist reveal deeply ingrained, self-defeating beliefs. Consciously choosing to believe you deserve these things is the first step to dismantling old blocks.

Craft your prayer sandwich. To reprogram these beliefs, create an "I Deserve Prayer Sandwich." Start and end with a profound statement of divine connection (your "bread"), and in between, insert present-tense affirmations of what you desire as if already received (your "fillings"). Repeating this daily, even if it feels like a "lie" initially, helps create new neural pathways and opens you to receiving miracles.

7. Unmask Your Inner Critics: Partner with Them for Wholeness

You are the unholy three: doubt, fear, and worry.

Identify the saboteurs. Your inner critics are not external forces but "shadow pieces" of yourself, often stemming from early wounds. They wear various masks—"Sleepy" (inability to wake), "Oops" (distractions), "I Don't Know What to Write," "Too Busy," "Eyes" (fear of exposure), and "Doubt." Recognizing these masks is the first step to disarming their power.

Understand their positive intention. Instead of fighting your critics, seek to understand their underlying positive intention. Often, they are trying to protect you from perceived harm or repeat past hurts. By externalizing these voices and listening for their core concerns, you can develop compassion for these parts of yourself.

Forge a partnership. Once you understand their protective role, you can invite your inner critics into a partnership. Acknowledge their concerns, but redirect their energy towards constructive outcomes. This process isn't about eliminating them, but about integrating them into a whole self, transforming their negative influence into a supportive, protective force.

8. Follow the Guidance: Small Actions Lead to Big Transformations

Just because the guidance is clear, it doesn't always mean that following it is easy.

Action activates change. Receiving guidance from the Voice is only half the journey; the other half is taking action. Your life begins to change when you implement the wisdom received, even if it feels challenging or counter-intuitive. This commitment to action is what transforms inner shifts into outer reality.

Start with "nibbles." Guidance often comes in small, digestible "nibbles" rather than grand directives. These small steps—a shift in thinking, a minor adjustment in behavior, a new perspective—are easier to follow and build momentum. Over time, these consistent small actions accumulate, leading to significant, life-altering transformations.

Shift your thinking. While "what to do" guidance is straightforward, the most profound transformations come from guidance that prompts you to shift your thoughts and feelings. This involves dismantling old, self-defeating thought patterns and replacing them with new, empowering beliefs. This internal work, though difficult, is what demolishes old neural pathways and builds new ones, creating a "better movie" for your life.

9. Recognize the Evidence: The Universe is Always Responding

Once you start connecting the dots between your requests and the Voice's response, you'll notice evidence everywhere.

Divine communication is constant. The Voice communicates not just on the page, but through countless forms in your daily life. This "evidence" can be tangible or intangible, appearing as:

  • Synchronicity: Meaningful coincidences that align with your questions or desires.
  • Dreams: Rich clues from your soul, offering insights and clarification.
  • Closed doors: What appears as "bad luck" can be divine guidance redirecting you.
  • External messengers: Books, songs, animals, or even numbers that repeatedly catch your attention.

Clarification and confirmation. If guidance feels unclear or overwhelming, ask for clarification. This can be done through high-velocity questions in your journal, interpreting dreams, or using divination tools like cards. The universe responds in equal measure to the strength of your desire to know, providing reassurance and deeper understanding.

Build your "Evidence Shelf." Actively collect and acknowledge these signs of divine support. Whether it's a feather, an unexpected check, or a timely conversation, each piece of evidence reinforces your connection to the Voice. Regularly reviewing your "Evidence Shelf" cultivates gratitude and strengthens your trust in being guided and loved.

10. Celebrate Your Soul's Unfoldment: Gratitude for the Whole Journey

If God said, ‘Rumi, pay homage to everything that has helped you enter my arms,’ there would not be one experience of my life, not one thought, not one feeling, not any act, I would not bow to.

Gratitude transforms perception. Cultivating gratitude for your entire soul's journey—including challenges, conflicts, and learnings—changes your perspective. It acts as a filter, allowing you to see your world differently and recognize the blessings even in difficult experiences. This profound appreciation deepens your connection with the divine.

The journey of discovery. Your soul's journey unfolds through layers: from your initial story to underlying conflicts, recurring themes, valuable learnings, and finally, your blessings. Each stage is essential; you cannot rush to the "golden box" of blessings without first exploring the preceding layers. Trusting this process leads to a deep knowing that "this is very, very good."

Create a "Soul Day." To celebrate and intensify your connection with the Voice, dedicate a "Soul Day." This personalized ritual can include:

  • Prayer and meditation: Exploring new forms or tools.
  • Feeding your soul: Reading, listening to music, connecting with nature.
  • Releasing woes: Ceremonially letting go of old fears.
  • Reviewing journals: Reflecting on insights and past guidance.
  • Renewing partnerships: Embracing inner critics and loved ones.
  • Asking and knowing: Clarifying desires and updating your "Prayer Sandwich."
  • Expressing your soul: Through art, dance, or music.
  • Blessing your bodymind: Gentle movement or self-care.
  • Joyful eating: A mindful meal, expressing grace.

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Writing Down Your Soul receives mostly positive reviews, praised for its spiritual approach to journaling and connecting with inner wisdom. Readers appreciate the practical guidance and transformative potential. Some find it life-changing, while others criticize its religious focus or repetitive content. The book's strengths include detailed instructions, thought-provoking questions, and personal anecdotes. Critics note it may not resonate with non-religious readers or those already familiar with similar concepts. Overall, it's recommended for those seeking spiritual growth through writing.

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Janet Conner is the author of Writing Down Your Soul, a book that explores the power of writing as a means to access divine wisdom and inner guidance. Conner developed her method through personal experience and extensive research into the science behind handwriting and its effects on the unconscious mind. She presents a modern, accessible approach to connecting with one's inner voice through writing, combining elements from various spiritual traditions. Conner's work aims to help readers tap into their inner wisdom, ask meaningful questions, and receive guidance to create the life they desire. Her book offers practical tools and techniques for those seeking spiritual growth and self-discovery through writing.

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