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To Live Is Christ to Die Is Gain

To Live Is Christ to Die Is Gain

Three strangers made family by grace: what Philippi reveals about a life death cannot undo.
by Matt Chandler 2013 224 pages
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The gospel demolishes barriers: at Philippi, a wealthy businesswoman, a slave girl, and a Roman jailer became family. A worthy life trades selfish ambition for Christ's self-emptying humility. Contentment is learned, independent of circumstance, rooted in God rather than gifts. Godly fear is awe before majesty, not terror, humbling pride and attracting mercy. Our security rests on Christ having taken hold of us, freeing honest struggle while we press forward.
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1. The gospel creates a supernatural community out of superficially incompatible people.

Apart from the supernaturally reconciling ministry of grace, rich fashionistas are not doing life with poor demoniacs.

Supernatural reconciliation. The church in Philippi began with an incredibly diverse group: Lydia, a wealthy Asian businesswoman; a demon-possessed Greek slave girl; and a blue-collar Roman jailer. The gospel dismantles the socioeconomic, racial, and religious walls that humans naturally build. It takes absolute strangers and makes them a family.

Overcoming natural preferences. We naturally prefer to associate with people who look, think, and act like us. However, the gospel is inherently unnatural, blowing the doors off our tidy, homogeneous groups to forge a unified family.

  • Lydia: Converted through intellectual engagement with the gospel.
  • The Slave Girl: Delivered and saved through spiritual power.
  • The Jailer: Converted through a living witness to a miracle.

A beautiful witness. When diverse people walk together in unity, the gospel looks massive to a watching world. This supernatural community is what fueled Paul's deep, affectionate yearning for the Philippian believers. It proves that the gospel cannot be stopped by the barriers of class, race, or status.

2. A life worthy of the gospel is marked by unity, humility, and fearless courage.

What does it look like to live life in a manner worthy of the gospel? It looks like dying with Christ to one’s self and being raised in Christ to walk in the newness of life with our brothers and sisters.

Ascribing supreme worth. To live a "worthy" life means to live in a way that shows Jesus is of supreme value. It requires us to lay aside our personal comfort, security, and sense of justice for the sake of Christ's glory. In the spiritual economy of the gospel, God's glory is most important, not our well-being.

Standing firm together. Living worthily is not an individualistic pursuit; it is a corporate endeavor. We must stand firm in one spirit, striving side-by-side, and extending patience and mercy to our brothers and sisters.

  • Foregoing our own way to preserve Christian unity.
  • Refusing to be swayed by ideological pendulum swings.
  • Rejecting the consumeristic mindset that treats church as a personal commodity.

Unassailable gospel courage. A worthy life is also entirely fearless in the face of opposition. When we hold Christ as our ultimate treasure, we realize that even suffering and death are gain, liberating us to live with bold, missionary courage.

3. Godly fear humbles our pride, receives divine mercy, and leads to true exaltation.

The kind of fear that the early Philippian converts knew was the biblical 'fear of God.' This is the kind of fear that typifies the work of sanctification.

Awe over terror. Godly fear is not a paralyzing terror of punishment, but a profound, put-in-our-place respect for the majesty of God. Like standing before a wild lion rather than a fainting goat, it inspires a healthy, worshipful awe. This fear is the beginning of wisdom and the foundation of our sanctification.

Attracting divine mercy. Scripture consistently shows that God pours out His mercy on those who approach Him in lowliness and fear. He bypasses the self-righteous and proud to rescue those who acknowledge their spiritual bankruptcy.

  • Zacchaeus: The despised tax collector who sought Jesus in humility.
  • The Canaanite Woman: Who begged for crumbs from the Master's table.
  • The Repentant Thief: Who offered nothing but awe and received Paradise.

Exaltation of the lowly. God delights in using the weak, the obscure, and the broken to display His power. When we humble ourselves under His mighty hand, He promises to exalt us in due time with eternal resources, rescue, and relationship.

4. True humility means abandoning selfish ambition to seek the way of the cross.

Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves.

The original sin. Selfish ambition and conceit stem from the prideful belief that we are due more honor than we are currently receiving. This self-exaltation is the root of all sin, echoing the serpent's original temptation to "be like God." It breeds envy, jealousy, and a toxic desire to see others fail.

The mind of Christ. The ultimate antidote to pride is the self-emptying humility of Jesus Christ. Though He was God, He did not grasp His status but took the form of a servant, obeying the Father even to death on a cross.

  • Relinquishing our rights and looking to the interests of others.
  • Serving in hidden, unglamorous ways without seeking recognition.
  • Working out our salvation with fear and trembling, powered by God's internal work.

Shining as lights. When we abandon selfish ambition and embrace the mind of Christ, we stand out dramatically. In a crooked and twisted generation, a humble, self-sacrificing church shines like stars in the dark.

5. We must passionately pursue Christ, counting all worldly gains as rubbish.

Indeed, I count everything as loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord.

The losing game. Many religious people focus on a list of moral achievements—their heritage, their clean living, and their spiritual disciplines. But Paul warns that placing confidence in these fleshly gains is a losing game that falls short of Christ's perfection.

Counting it as rubbish. In comparison to the infinite value of knowing Jesus, all worldly achievements, moral credits, and earthly treasures are "rubbish"—literally, dung. True righteousness is not earned through the law but received through faith in Christ.

  • Rejecting the "I do, I don't, I have, I never" moralistic trap.
  • Trading temporary, earthly gains for the eternal prize of Christ.
  • Seeking to share in His sufferings to know the power of His resurrection.

An all-consuming passion. Like King David thirsting in a dry land, mature believers possess an intense, soul-deep yearning for God. We must actively identify what stirs our affections for Jesus and ruthlessly eliminate what robs us of them.

6. Our ultimate security rests in being eternally owned and pursued by Christ.

Not that I have already obtained this or am already perfect, but I press on to make it my own, because Christ Jesus has made me his own.

Grace for brokenness. We do not pursue Christ to earn His love, but because He has already laid hold of us. Even after conversion, we remain broken people who struggle with sin, but we can struggle honestly because we are secure in His grace.

Chosen before time. Our salvation does not depend on our spiritual elbow grease, but on God's sovereign, predestining love. Before the foundation of the world, He chose us to be holy and adopted us as His children.

  • Justification is a gift of grace, not a reward for self-improvement.
  • God rescues the dirty to the praise of His glorious grace.
  • Our security in Christ gives us the freedom to be transparent about our struggles.

A love that won't let go. When we try to run from God, His relentless grace pursues us and brings us back. Because Christ has made us His own, we are eternally secure, and we find the power to press on in our sanctification.

7. Cultivate a holy discontentment that rejects spiritual plateaus and strains forward.

But one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.

Rejecting spiritual stasis. Nobody stumbles into godliness by accident; it requires intentional effort, training, and discipline. A holy discontentment is a healthy dissatisfaction with our current spiritual state that drives us deeper into Christ.

Forgetting the past. To strain forward, we must forget both past victories and past failures that threaten to stall our progress. Resting on yesterday's grace makes us smug, while obsessing over past sins makes us forget the sufficiency of the cross.

  • Yesterday's victories cannot power today's spiritual battles.
  • Past failures are fully covered by the blood of Jesus.
  • We must boast in our weaknesses to magnify Christ's strength.

Grace-fueled effort. Striving for godliness is not legalism; as Dallas Willard noted, grace is opposed to earning, not to effort. We work out our salvation with fear and trembling because God is actively working within us.

8. Center your life on the gospel by embracing your true heavenly citizenship.

But our citizenship is in heaven, and from it we await a Savior, the Lord Jesus Christ...

The danger of earthly identity. We naturally try to define ourselves by our jobs, our wealth, our physical appearance, or our social circles. But when we build our identity on temporary, earthly things, we fall into the trap of idolatry.

Living as exiles. The gospel calls us to find our identity entirely in Christ, recognizing that our true citizenship is in heaven. When we view ourselves as foreigners in this world, we hold earthly treasures loosely and live according to heavenly values.

  • Engaging in discipleship to learn how to apply the gospel daily.
  • Rejecting the consumeristic, materialistic values of our culture.
  • Anticipating the return of Christ and the consummation of all things.

The hope of glory. Living in light of our heavenly citizenship makes our earthly suffering sensible and bearable. We eagerly await the day when Christ will return, transform our lowly bodies, and welcome us to His eternal feast.

9. We can choose to rejoice always because the sovereign Lord is always near.

Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice.

An unconditional command. Paul commands us to rejoice "always"—not just when life is comfortable, but even in the midst of deep pain, tragedy, and uncertainty. This joy is not a superficial feeling, but a deep-seated confidence in God's character.

The proximity of God. We can remain reasonable and peaceful in chaotic circumstances because "the Lord is at hand." God is not a distant observer; He is intimately present with us, sovereignly ruling over every detail of our lives.

  • God's sovereignty means nothing is too difficult for Him.
  • His providence orchestrates even our frustrations for His glory.
  • We can trust Him with our lives, our families, and our futures.

Fighting for joy. Joy is a choice we must fight for, especially when our world is crumbling. By keeping our eyes on the sovereign God rather than our circumstances, we can offer up our pain to Him in trust.

10. True contentment is a learned discipline that is entirely independent of circumstances.

In any and every circumstance, I have learned the secret of facing plenty and hunger, abundance and need.

An unnatural discipline. Contentment does not come naturally to our fallen hearts, which constantly crave "more." We must learn contentment both intellectually from God's Word and experientially through the trials of life.

Satisfied with the Giver. True contentment means being satisfied with God Himself rather than His gifts. When we have Christ, we realize we have no actual needs, liberating us to enjoy abundance without worshiping it, and to endure lack without despairing.

  • Learning from Scripture that God's steadfast love is better than life.
  • Practicing open-handedness with our wealth, comfort, and security.
  • Finding sweet, deep communion with God in our darkest moments of suffering.

Unconquerable faith. When Christ is our all, we can truly do all things through Him who strengthens us. Whether we are brought low or abounding, healthy or sick, living or dying, our souls remain anchored in His sufficient grace.

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Matt Chandler is the lead pastor of The Village Church, a thriving multi-campus congregation in the Dallas metroplex with over 10,000 members. His sermons rank among the top-selling free podcasts on iTunes, and he is a sought-after speaker at conferences worldwide. Before taking on his role at The Village, Matt spent over ten years in itinerant ministry, sharing his passion for the glory of God and the beauty of Jesus with hundreds of thousands of people across America and beyond. He resides in Texas with his wife, Lauren, and their three children: Audrey, Reid, and Norah.

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