The circle of feminine power

1. Unlock Your Innate Feminine Power

The womb is a source of feminine power, and in it we accumulate energy and store the invisible threads of power that connect us with all men with which we have had affairs.

Womb as power center. The book reveals that the womb is the core of a woman's feminine power, a place where energy is accumulated and connections to all past lovers are stored. This energy is vital for attracting opportunities, money, and, most importantly, the right man. Larisa's great-grandmother, Varvara, discovered this ancient knowledge, realizing that a woman's attractiveness isn't just about beauty but about her energetic fullness.

Severing past ties. To truly harness this power, it's crucial to release energetic ties with past partners, as these connections can drain a woman's energy for up to seven years, preventing new love. Varvara learned a ritual to sever these ties, involving a "circle of feminine power" hand gesture placed over the womb, turning to the past, gathering threads, and exhaling to release. Larisa and her friends, initially skeptical, found this practice surprisingly effective, with past lovers suddenly reappearing or new energy surging.

Accumulating energy. Once past ties are cleared, a woman can actively accumulate energy from the elements—water, air, fire, and earth—through meditation and visualization. Varvara's aunt taught her to visualize her "source of femininity" as a garden, clearing negativity and then finding a "waterfall" or "sea" to bathe in, symbolizing feminine energy. This process culminates in finding a "shimmering pearl" (feminine attractiveness) and placing it in the womb, leading to a feeling of regeneration and power.

2. Cultivate Your Inner Fire and Attraction

The true woman is always a bit of a predator!

Awaken internal flower. The book emphasizes that a woman's vagina and womb are her "internal flower," the seat of her desire and power. Through visualization and physical touch (like with a rose), a woman can learn to open and close this flower, directing her desire and attracting what she wants. Varvara learned that her petals were "dark blue," indicating too much thought and not enough feeling, prompting her to embrace sensuality.

Strengthen intimate muscles. Ancient rituals, often taught from a young age, focus on strengthening intimate muscles. These exercises, like those using a "little stimulator" Larisa discovered, not only enhance pleasure for both partners but also increase a woman's ability to accumulate and retain energy. Larisa found that just two weeks of consistent training significantly changed how men perceived her, making her feel desired and irresistible.

Radiate sexual energy. A woman's sexual energy creates an "exciting field of sexuality" that draws men like a magnet. This field is activated by contracting intimate muscles and visualizing the "petals" of the internal flower opening, creating a pleasant heat. Varvara's aunt taught her to "fill her heels" with a man's image, making her feel more confident and powerful, while Larisa experienced cars stopping for her and clients becoming more agreeable after applying these techniques.

3. Master the Art of Seduction and Engagement

The seductive look should last about seven seconds and to attract dangerous and beautiful adventures.

The stages of acquaintance. Seduction is an art with distinct stages, beginning with a powerful, passionate look. Varvara learned that a seven-second gaze, filled with erotic imagination and the silent mantra "You are delightful, I am delightful, love is delightful," can captivate a man. This is followed by a winning smile, a subtle nod, a strategic approach, and a light, "accidental" touch, all designed to ignite his interest without appearing overly eager.

The power of voice and touch. A woman's voice, when spoken from the "depths of her being" (focusing on the womb), becomes sensual and bewitching. Touch is equally crucial; Varvara's aunt taught her to fill her hands with "fire" from her womb, making her caresses irresistible. Larisa learned the "Do what I wish you to do" method, where she initiates a movement and then subtly withdraws, prompting the man to complete the action and touch her himself, making him feel like the initiator.

Strategic disappearance. After the initial spark, a woman must strategically disappear. This creates longing and allows the man to invest his emotions and time in pursuing her. Varvara's aunt emphasized that "distance strengthens love," making the man realize her value. Larisa, after her first intimate encounter with Matvey, engineered a sudden departure, leaving him wanting more and appreciating her presence.

4. Embrace the Four Feminine Archetypes

A man dreams to find everything in one woman, a lover, a mistress, a queen, and a girl.

Four states of a woman. The book introduces four fundamental feminine states, or archetypes, that a man unconsciously seeks in a woman:

• The Lover: Passionate, sexual, unpredictable (Fire element).
• The Girl: Enthusiastic, spontaneous, naive, requiring protection (Water element).
• The Queen (or Bitch): Independent, clever, self-sufficient, unapproachable (Air element).
• The Mistress: Calm, practical, caring, nurturing (Earth element).
  Varvara's aunt explained that embodying all four closes the "circle of feminine power," making a woman irresistible and worthy of a wedding ring.

Elemental connections. Each state is linked to an element, which can be strengthened through rituals. Varvara experienced a powerful ritual on Ivan Kupala night, meeting priestesses embodying these elements and receiving gifts: a black pearl (Water/emotional authority), a red candle (Fire/sexual authority), a pink crystal (Earth/physical authority), and a feather (Air/mental authority). This helped her identify her dominant states (Lover and Girl) and understand where she needed to grow.

Balancing energies. While women are born with intuitive knowledge of these states, some dominate more than others. Larisa and her friends discovered their prevalent states: Aniska (Queen/Air), Kisa (Lover/Fire), Manechka (Mistress/Earth), and Larisa (Girl/Water). They learned a ritual to "exchange qualities," transferring desired energies to each other, recognizing that a woman's strength comes from integrating all four aspects, making her a complete and captivating partner.

5. Inspire and Empower Your Man

Belief in the man is the key to his heart!

The power of belief. A woman's unwavering belief in a man's abilities, even when he doubts himself or faces failure, is his primary emotional necessity. This belief gives him strength, energy, and the wings to achieve his dreams. Varvara's aunt taught her that a man will never forgive disbelief, even if he cheats, because it undermines his core.

Acknowledging his efforts. Men crave recognition and attention for their efforts. It's not just about grand gestures but appreciating the small things he does. Larisa learned that even a simple act of Matvey filling her windshield washer fluid, when met with sincere gratitude, made him feel needed and loved. This appreciation fuels his desire to do more for her.

Creating a field of action. A woman creates the "field of action" for a man's success. By listening to his dreams and plans with genuine interest and belief, she inspires him to make them a reality. If she senses a project is doomed, she can "close the space" by listening blankly, subtly guiding him away without direct criticism. Larisa observed Matvey's enthusiasm soar when she listened to his ambitious business plans with unwavering faith, realizing that her belief made his "mad plans" seem achievable.

6. Strategize for Lasting Commitment

After becoming a mistress, it is almost impossible to become the wife.

Marriage strategy. The book outlines a specific "strategy for marriage" to guide a man towards commitment. It emphasizes that while a "Lover" attracts, a "Girl" is what a man marries. The sequence is crucial:

• Attract as a Lover: Ignite passion and desire.
• Transition to Queen: Become unapproachable, independent, and surrounded by admirers, making him pursue you.
• Become the Girl: After engagement, be obedient, admiring, and allow him to make decisions.
• Reveal the Mistress: Only after marriage, fully display your caring and nurturing side.
  Breaking this sequence can lead to relationships that end quickly or remain uncommitted.

The value of inaccessibility. During courtship, a woman should evade intimacy for a period (e.g., 16 appointments) without rejecting the man, keeping him in suspense. This makes him invest time, money, and emotion, increasing his appreciation for her. Varvara's aunt advised her to maintain the "Queen" state, making her attention a highly valued favor, ensuring Mark would truly earn her.

The danger of the "mummy" role. Giving too much—feeding, caring, making decisions—without demanding anything in return, turns a man into a "son" rather than a lover or husband. This dynamic, often seen in the "Mistress" state when overemphasized, leads to a loss of desire. Larisa learned that while care is important, it must be balanced with other states to maintain attraction and prevent the man from seeking a "Girl" to care for elsewhere.

7. Receive Abundance Through Desire and Worth

The more you appreciate yourself, the more chances man has to reach his heights.

The art of receiving gifts. Men intuitively feel that investing in a woman brings them tenfold returns in success and prosperity. Therefore, a woman should learn to ask for and receive gifts with genuine delight, as this fuels a man's desire to give more. Larisa's manicurist, Mila, taught her that a man needs an emotional response and acknowledgement of his efforts, even for small gifts.

Expanding his comfort zone. A woman's desires, when clearly articulated, expand a man's "comfort zone"—his current financial and social status. By asking for gifts that are slightly beyond his current means, she inspires him to grow and achieve more. Mila advised Larisa to ask for a specific diamond ring, framed from Matvey's perspective (e.g., "I'm so glad I met a man with such faultless taste..."), making him feel appreciated and capable.

The "Cornucopia" ritual. To truly believe in her worthiness to receive, a woman can perform the "Cornucopia" exercise. This ritual involves releasing anger and self-doubt, affirming one's worth, and visualizing a cornucopia showering her with desired gifts and abundance. Varvara, initially skeptical about receiving a diamond, used this to shift her mindset, realizing that internal belief is key to external manifestation.

8. Understand Male Archetypes for Deeper Connection

The knowledge of the category the man belongs to allows us to understand him better and to accept him as he is, with all his advantages and disadvantages.

Four male archetypes. Men, like women, are influenced by dominant elements, shaping them into four basic archetypes:

• Governors (Air + Earth): Logical, practical, leaders, strong-willed, secretive, jealous. They seek a sexual and emotional woman (Lover and Girl).
• Merchants (Earth + Water): Practical, sensitive, good at bargaining, risk-takers, sociable, enjoy variety. They seek a judicious and sexual woman (Queen and Lover).
• Creators (Water + Fire): Imaginative, romantic, artistic, indifferent to household trifles, inventive in bed. They seek practicality and logic (Mistress and Queen).
• Trailblazers (Fire + Air): Logical, intuitive, scientific, destroy old to create new, indifferent to money/health. They seek practicality and emotionality (Mistress and Girl).
  Varvara's aunt explained that understanding these archetypes helps a woman accept a man's nature and tailor her approach.

Acceptance over change. The book stresses that men are less flexible than women and rarely change their fundamental nature. Instead of trying to change a man, a woman should accept him as he is, focusing on his positive sides. Larisa, after Matvey's unexpected departure to help his ex-wife, learned from her friends that "a man can't be understood, he must be accepted." This acceptance, paradoxically, makes him more open to change.

Tailoring your approach. By knowing a man's archetype, a woman can present the qualities he seeks, becoming his ideal partner. For example, a Governor needs a woman who can fill his regulated life with color and unpredictability, while a Creator needs someone to manage household affairs and realize his dreams. This doesn't mean losing oneself, but rather consciously choosing which "costume" to wear to complement his energy and inspire him.

9. Craft an Irresistible Image and Environment

The more you know what a man expects, the easier it will be for you to become the woman of his dreams.

Sensual dominants. A man perceives the world through five sensual dominants: vision, touch, smell, taste, and hearing, each with specific preferences. To be an ideal mistress, a woman must cater to these.

• Vision: Match his ideal image (hair, clothes, makeup). Men see the whole, which should be harmonious.
• Touch: Constant, gentle touches, daily French kisses (7+ seconds), and weekly massages are vital to keep him connected.
• Smell: Allow him to choose your perfume, use vanilla, and ensure the home always smells fresh, avoiding "old age" smells.
• Taste: Master his childhood favorite dishes, especially if his mother cooked them. "You cook like my mum" is the highest compliment.
• Hearing: Listen intently to him (he can't listen for more than 20 seconds), and offer genuine compliments, praising his real advantages.

The mistress's role. The mistress provides care, but it must be the right kind of care, tailored to his specific sensual preferences. Varvara's aunt emphasized that a woman's individuality is expressed not in resisting these preferences, but in how she embodies them, like an actress changing costumes. Conceding small things to win a greater prize—his devotion and the world he offers—is a wise strategy.

Creating the desired atmosphere. Beyond personal appearance, the environment plays a crucial role. A man is sensitive to the atmosphere of his home. Varvara learned to fill her house with freshness, light, and specific aromas. Larisa, on her yacht trip, consciously played the role of the ideal mistress, cooking delicious meals and giving Matvey a "native massage" that left him captivated, realizing the power of these deliberate actions.

10. Navigate Doubts and Provocations with Wisdom

If after one year the man doesn’t propose, it’s time to take drastic actions.

The period of doubts. After initial intimacy, a man enters a period of doubt and hesitation. It's crucial for the woman to disappear, allowing him space to process his emotions and realize her importance. Varvara's aunt advised a 3-10 day absence, as "distance strengthens love." Larisa, after her first night with Matvey, engineered an urgent departure, leaving him to ponder their connection.

Strategic provocations. If a relationship stagnates without commitment, a strategic "provocation" can be necessary. This involves creating the illusion of losing her forever, such as announcing a permanent move or a marriage proposal from another man. Varvara's aunt orchestrated her "departure to Paris" to force Mark's hand. Larisa, facing Matvey's lack of commitment, invented a competing suitor and a wedding deadline, understanding that men often need to feel competition to value what they have.

Releasing pain and insult. Infidelity or perceived betrayal can be deeply painful, but reacting with anger or tears drains a woman's energy and authority. The book offers a ritual to release "insult and pain," involving physical movements and a powerful exhalation ("A-S-S-A") to symbolically pull out the emotional stake. Larisa, after discovering Matvey's infidelity, used this ritual to regain her composure and decide to control her own destiny rather than being a victim.

11. Choose Your Destiny: The Power of Self-Knowledge

We always make a choice! Every second we choose this or that path, and you have chosen the more difficult road.

Knowing your true desires. The ultimate lesson is the importance of self-knowledge and choosing a partner who aligns with one's deepest desires, rather than settling. Varvara, despite Mark's proposal, realized he wasn't "her man" after a "trip to parallel worlds" meditation, where she saw two futures: one with Mark (calm happiness) and one without him, leading to a more powerful, destined love. She chose the more challenging path, seeking a man who would decide the destiny of the world.

The journey of transformation. Both Larisa and Varvara undergo significant personal transformations, learning to harness feminine power, understand male psychology, and navigate complex relationships. Larisa, after her year-long journey with Matvey, realized that while the "rules" worked, Matvey wasn't the man for her. She had proven the techniques, but her desires had evolved.

Creating your own world. The book concludes with the empowering message that a woman is responsible for creating her own world. Larisa decides to open a school to teach other women these "rules of the man's world and how to control this world," embracing her newfound wisdom and agency. This signifies a shift from seeking external validation to internal empowerment, choosing her path with confidence and self-awareness.

Last updated: February 27, 2026