50 Books like On Self-Hatred

Freedom from Your Inner Critic

by Jay Earley • 2013

Your inner critic is really a protector. Unblend from its attacks and transform its role.

3.87

209

🧩 Internal Family Systems 👹 Inner Critic 💗 Self-Compassion 🧒 Childhood Healing 🗣️ Negative Self-Talk

Freedom from Your Inner Critic 97%

Your inner critic is really a protector. Unblend from its attacks and transform its role.

by Jay Earley 2013

3.87

209 ratings

🧩 Internal Family Systems 👹 Inner Critic 💗 Self-Compassion 🧒 Childhood Healing 🗣️ Negative Self-Talk

Why Do I Keep Doing This?

by Kati Morton • 2025

The habits keeping you stuck began as childhood armor. A therapist's guide to putting them down.

3.70

421

🌀 Self-Sabotage 🎯 Perfectionism Recovery 🙇 People Pleasing 🚧 Boundary Setting 🧒 Childhood Trauma

Why Do I Keep Doing This? 97%

The habits keeping you stuck began as childhood armor. A therapist's guide to putting them down.

by Kati Morton 2025

3.70

421 ratings

🌀 Self-Sabotage 🎯 Perfectionism Recovery 🙇 People Pleasing 🚧 Boundary Setting 🧒 Childhood Trauma

Tiny Buddha's Guide to Loving Yourself

by Lori Deschene • 2013

Forty practices for quieting your inner critic, tested by millions who have silenced their own.

4.03

567

🫂 Self Compassion 🧠 Inner Critic 🧘 Buddhist Psychology 👧 Childhood Healing 🌸 Perfectionism Recovery

Tiny Buddha's Guide to Loving Yourself Summary

Tiny Buddha's Guide to Loving Yourself 97%

Forty practices for quieting your inner critic, tested by millions who have silenced their own.

by Lori Deschene 2013

4.03

567 ratings

🫂 Self Compassion 🧠 Inner Critic 🧘 Buddhist Psychology 👧 Childhood Healing 🌸 Perfectionism Recovery

Healing Your Emotional Self

by Beverly Engel • 2006

Childhood wounds fuel your inner critic. A program to break the cycle and rebuild self-compassion.

4.00

1k+

🧒 Childhood Trauma 👶 Inner Child Work 🛡️ Shame Resilience 🗣️ Inner Critic Work 💗 Self-Compassion

Healing Your Emotional Self 96%

Childhood wounds fuel your inner critic. A program to break the cycle and rebuild self-compassion.

by Beverly Engel 2006

4.00

1k+ ratings

🧒 Childhood Trauma 👶 Inner Child Work 🛡️ Shame Resilience 🗣️ Inner Critic Work 💗 Self-Compassion

How to Stop Breaking Your Own Heart

by Meggan Roxanne • 2024

Your worst relationship is with yourself. The way out: stop treating your own needs as negotiable.

3.68

2k+

🙇 People Pleasing 🚧 Boundary Setting 💔 Self Sabotage 💖 Self Compassion ✨ Authentic Living

How to Stop Breaking Your Own Heart Summary

How to Stop Breaking Your Own Heart 96%

Your worst relationship is with yourself. The way out: stop treating your own needs as negotiable.

by Meggan Roxanne 2024

3.68

2k+ ratings

🙇 People Pleasing 🚧 Boundary Setting 💔 Self Sabotage 💖 Self Compassion ✨ Authentic Living

I Love Me More

by Jenna Banks • 2022

A skill, not a feeling: how daily self-love rebuilds your boundaries, career, and finances.

3.78

446

❤️ Self-Love 🚧 Boundary Setting 🛡️ Emotional Resilience 🧠 Inner Critic 🎭 People Pleasing

I Love Me More 96%

A skill, not a feeling: how daily self-love rebuilds your boundaries, career, and finances.

by Jenna Banks 2022

3.78

446 ratings

❤️ Self-Love 🚧 Boundary Setting 🛡️ Emotional Resilience 🧠 Inner Critic 🎭 People Pleasing

On My Own Side

by Aziz Gazipura • 2020

Your inner critic runs on fear. One decision turns it into permanent self-worth.

4.34

169

🧘 Self-Compassion 👹 Inner Critic Work 🫂 Radical Acceptance 🩹 Emotional Healing 🎯 Perfectionism Recovery

On My Own Side 96%

Your inner critic runs on fear. One decision turns it into permanent self-worth.

by Aziz Gazipura 2020

4.34

169 ratings

🧘 Self-Compassion 👹 Inner Critic Work 🫂 Radical Acceptance 🩹 Emotional Healing 🎯 Perfectionism Recovery

How to Overcome Your Childhood

by The School of Life • 2019

The people you love feel familiar for a reason. Rewiring that pull takes more than insight.

4.08

2k+

🪞 Inner Child Work 🧬 Emotional Inheritance 🎭 People Pleasing 🛋️ Psychodynamic Approach 📚 Therapeutic Philosophy

How to Overcome Your Childhood 96%

The people you love feel familiar for a reason. Rewiring that pull takes more than insight.

by The School of Life 2019

4.08

2k+ ratings

🪞 Inner Child Work 🧬 Emotional Inheritance 🎭 People Pleasing 🛋️ Psychodynamic Approach 📚 Therapeutic Philosophy

Are You Mad at Me?

by Meg Josephson • 2025

You were trained to scan every room for anger. That wiring can be changed.

4.37

14k+

🧎 People Pleasing 🩹 Trauma Recovery 🧠 Trauma Responses 🌿 Nervous System Regulation 🪑 Internal Family Systems

Are You Mad at Me? 96%

You were trained to scan every room for anger. That wiring can be changed.

by Meg Josephson 2025

4.37

14k+ ratings

🧎 People Pleasing 🩹 Trauma Recovery 🧠 Trauma Responses 🌿 Nervous System Regulation 🪑 Internal Family Systems

Healing the Shame That Binds You

by John Bradshaw • 1988

When shame becomes identity, it poisons everything. The exit begins with telling someone.

4.09

12k+

🧒 Childhood Trauma 🗣️ Inner Critic 🔄 Addiction Recovery 💗 Self-Compassion 🔗 Codependency

Healing the Shame That Binds You Summary

Healing the Shame That Binds You 96%

When shame becomes identity, it poisons everything. The exit begins with telling someone.

by John Bradshaw 1988

4.09

12k+ ratings

🧒 Childhood Trauma 🗣️ Inner Critic 🔄 Addiction Recovery 💗 Self-Compassion 🔗 Codependency

Embracing Your Inner Critic

by Hal Stone • 1993

Turn the voice that sabotages you into a calm, intelligent advisor. No silencing required.

4.02

454

🗣️ Inner Critic 🧩 Parts Work 👶 Inner Child 🌑 Shadow Work 💗 Self-Compassion

Embracing Your Inner Critic 96%

Turn the voice that sabotages you into a calm, intelligent advisor. No silencing required.

by Hal Stone 1993

4.02

454 ratings

🗣️ Inner Critic 🧩 Parts Work 👶 Inner Child 🌑 Shadow Work 💗 Self-Compassion

What Is Psychotherapy?

by The School of Life • 2019

Your flaws are not character defects but childhood survival strategies. How therapy rewrites them.

4.00

342

🧘 Emotional Healing 🧒 Childhood Trauma 🔗 Attachment Theory 👶 Inner Child Work 🛡️ Defense Mechanisms

What Is Psychotherapy? 96%

Your flaws are not character defects but childhood survival strategies. How therapy rewrites them.

by The School of Life 2019

4.00

342 ratings

🧘 Emotional Healing 🧒 Childhood Trauma 🔗 Attachment Theory 👶 Inner Child Work 🛡️ Defense Mechanisms

Breaking Negative Thinking Patterns

by Gitta Jacob • 2012

Self-criticism, numbness, rage: not flaws but modes. Map yours and build the one that heals.

3.96

2k+

🩺 Therapeutic Self-Help 🌊 Emotional Regulation 🧸 Inner Child Work 💗 Self-Compassion Practices 🧠 Cognitive Behavioral

Breaking Negative Thinking Patterns Summary

Breaking Negative Thinking Patterns 96%

Self-criticism, numbness, rage: not flaws but modes. Map yours and build the one that heals.

by Gitta Jacob 2012

3.96

2k+ ratings

🩺 Therapeutic Self-Help 🌊 Emotional Regulation 🧸 Inner Child Work 💗 Self-Compassion Practices 🧠 Cognitive Behavioral

Conquering Shame and Codependency

by Darlene Lancer • 2014

Shame drives codependency. Eight steps to disarm the inner critic and reclaim the self you lost.

4.22

422

🔗 Codependency Recovery 🩹 Shame Healing 🧠 Inner Critic Work 💬 Vulnerability Practice 🧸 Childhood Trauma

Conquering Shame and Codependency Summary

Conquering Shame and Codependency 96%

Shame drives codependency. Eight steps to disarm the inner critic and reclaim the self you lost.

by Darlene Lancer 2014

4.22

422 ratings

🔗 Codependency Recovery 🩹 Shame Healing 🧠 Inner Critic Work 💬 Vulnerability Practice 🧸 Childhood Trauma

How to Be Enough

by Ellen Hendriksen • 2025

Perfectionism isn't the pursuit of flawlessness. It's the quiet conviction that you are not enough.

4.06

1k+

🎯 Perfectionism Recovery 💗 Self-Compassion 💭 Inner Critic ⏳ Procrastination ⚖️ Social Comparison

How to Be Enough 96%

Perfectionism isn't the pursuit of flawlessness. It's the quiet conviction that you are not enough.

by Ellen Hendriksen 2025

4.06

1k+ ratings

🎯 Perfectionism Recovery 💗 Self-Compassion 💭 Inner Critic ⏳ Procrastination ⚖️ Social Comparison

Soul without Shame

by Byron Brown • 1998

You do not have to believe your inner critic or fight it. The third way, mapped.

4.04

488

🗣️ Inner Critic Work 💖 Self-Compassion ✨ Self-Worth 🩹 Emotional Healing 🌬️ Somatic Awareness

Soul without Shame 96%

You do not have to believe your inner critic or fight it. The third way, mapped.

by Byron Brown 1998

4.04

488 ratings

🗣️ Inner Critic Work 💖 Self-Compassion ✨ Self-Worth 🩹 Emotional Healing 🌬️ Somatic Awareness

Letting Go Of Shame

by Ronald T. Potter-Efron • 1989

The voice that says you are defective can be quieted. A clinical guide to reclaiming self-respect.

4.01

176

🩹 Emotional Healing 😔 Shame And Guilt 💗 Self-Compassion 🗣️ Negative Self-Talk 🤝 Healing Relationships

Letting Go Of Shame 96%

The voice that says you are defective can be quieted. A clinical guide to reclaiming self-respect.

by Ronald T. Potter-Efron 1989

4.01

176 ratings

🩹 Emotional Healing 😔 Shame And Guilt 💗 Self-Compassion 🗣️ Negative Self-Talk 🤝 Healing Relationships

The Joy Of Imperfection

by Damon Zahariades • 2017

Perfectionism is a trap. A plan to stop overthinking, end people-pleasing, and accept good enough.

3.80

538

🎯 Perfectionism 🤐 Inner Critic 💗 Self-Compassion ⏳ Procrastination 🌟 Positive Psychology

The Joy Of Imperfection 96%

Perfectionism is a trap. A plan to stop overthinking, end people-pleasing, and accept good enough.

by Damon Zahariades 2017

3.80

538 ratings

🎯 Perfectionism 🤐 Inner Critic 💗 Self-Compassion ⏳ Procrastination 🌟 Positive Psychology

Introduction to Internal Family Systems

by Richard C. Schwartz • 2001

Your mind is a family of inner parts. There is a leader inside you that can heal them.

4.24

3k+

🧩 Parts Work 🧒 Inner Child Healing 💖 Compassion-Based Therapy 🩹 Trauma Healing 🌑 Shadow Work

Introduction to Internal Family Systems Summary

Introduction to Internal Family Systems 96%

Your mind is a family of inner parts. There is a leader inside you that can heal them.

by Richard C. Schwartz 2001

4.24

3k+ ratings

🧩 Parts Work 🧒 Inner Child Healing 💖 Compassion-Based Therapy 🩹 Trauma Healing 🌑 Shadow Work

Make Change That Lasts (B&W Illustrations)

by Rangan Chatterjee • 2024

The habits you cannot break are not the real problem. Nine ways to find what is.

4.06

2k+

🧘 Inner Work 🔄 Behavior Change 🎭 People Pleasing 🚧 Setting Boundaries 🕊️ Forgiveness Practice

Make Change That Lasts (B&W Illustrations) Summary

Make Change That Lasts (B&W Illustrations) 96%

The habits you cannot break are not the real problem. Nine ways to find what is.

by Rangan Chatterjee 2024

4.06

2k+ ratings

🧘 Inner Work 🔄 Behavior Change 🎭 People Pleasing 🚧 Setting Boundaries 🕊️ Forgiveness Practice

Too Nice for Your Own Good

by Duke Robinson • 1997

Nice people finish drained, resentful, and overlooked. Specific skills that break the pattern.

3.46

2k+

🎭 People Pleasing 🚧 Interpersonal Boundaries 🗣️ Assertiveness Training 💬 Emotional Honesty 😤 Anger Management

Too Nice for Your Own Good 96%

Nice people finish drained, resentful, and overlooked. Specific skills that break the pattern.

by Duke Robinson 1997

3.46

2k+ ratings

🎭 People Pleasing 🚧 Interpersonal Boundaries 🗣️ Assertiveness Training 💬 Emotional Honesty 😤 Anger Management

The Power of Self-Esteem

by Nathaniel Branden • 1987

Two core beliefs determine your self-worth; this book teaches the daily practices that build them.

3.62

239

🧑‍🔬 Humanistic Psychology 🧘 Self-Acceptance 🔒 Personal Integrity 🤝 Self-Trust 🌿 Conscious Living

The Power of Self-Esteem 96%

Two core beliefs determine your self-worth; this book teaches the daily practices that build them.

by Nathaniel Branden 1987

3.62

239 ratings

🧑‍🔬 Humanistic Psychology 🧘 Self-Acceptance 🔒 Personal Integrity 🤝 Self-Trust 🌿 Conscious Living

Healing Your Lost Inner Child

by Robert Jackman • 2020

Pinpoint the age your childhood wounds froze you in place, then write your way out.

4.20

794

🧒 Inner Child Work 🩹 Childhood Trauma 🚧 Boundary Setting ✍️ Expressive Writing 🎯 Emotional Triggers

Healing Your Lost Inner Child 96%

Pinpoint the age your childhood wounds froze you in place, then write your way out.

by Robert Jackman 2020

4.20

794 ratings

🧒 Inner Child Work 🩹 Childhood Trauma 🚧 Boundary Setting ✍️ Expressive Writing 🎯 Emotional Triggers

Self-Compassion

by Kristin Neff • 2011

Forget self-esteem: the research-backed alternative that works precisely when you fall short.

4.13

27k+

🫂 Self-Acceptance 🧘 Compassion Practices 🔇 Overcoming Self-Criticism 🧠 Mindfulness Practice 🛡️ Emotional Resilience

Self-Compassion 96%

Forget self-esteem: the research-backed alternative that works precisely when you fall short.

by Kristin Neff 2011

4.13

27k+ ratings

🫂 Self-Acceptance 🧘 Compassion Practices 🔇 Overcoming Self-Criticism 🧠 Mindfulness Practice 🛡️ Emotional Resilience

The Pursuit of Perfect

by Tal Ben-Shahar • 2009

Perfectionism is not high standards. It's a refusal of reality, and it can be unlearned.

4.01

2k+

🧪 Positive Psychology 🔧 Perfectionism Recovery 🌱 Growth Mindset 💗 Self-Compassion ⚖️ Work Life Balance

The Pursuit of Perfect 96%

Perfectionism is not high standards. It's a refusal of reality, and it can be unlearned.

by Tal Ben-Shahar 2009

4.01

2k+ ratings

🧪 Positive Psychology 🔧 Perfectionism Recovery 🌱 Growth Mindset 💗 Self-Compassion ⚖️ Work Life Balance

Master Your Attachment Style

by Scott A Young • 2021

Four ways people push love away. Learn yours, leverage its hidden strengths, and stop the pattern.

4.10

143

🧩 Attachment Theory ❤️ Relationship Psychology 🩹 Healing From Childhood Trauma 🪢 Codependency Recovery 🧠 Self-Limiting Beliefs

Master Your Attachment Style 96%

Four ways people push love away. Learn yours, leverage its hidden strengths, and stop the pattern.

by Scott A Young 2021

4.10

143 ratings

🧩 Attachment Theory ❤️ Relationship Psychology 🩹 Healing From Childhood Trauma 🪢 Codependency Recovery 🧠 Self-Limiting Beliefs

Triggers

by David Richo • 2019

Old wounds hide inside every trigger. Learn to find them, grieve, and respond instead of react.

3.86

905

🧠 Emotional Regulation 💔 Trauma Recovery 👶 Inner Child Work 🧘 Mindfulness Practice 🌧️ Grief Work

Triggers 96%

Old wounds hide inside every trigger. Learn to find them, grieve, and respond instead of react.

by David Richo 2019

3.86

905 ratings

🧠 Emotional Regulation 💔 Trauma Recovery 👶 Inner Child Work 🧘 Mindfulness Practice 🌧️ Grief Work

The White Knight Syndrome

by Mary C. Lamia • 2015

The need to rescue broken partners is a childhood wound dressed as love.

3.88

113

🩹 Compulsive Caretaking 🧒 Childhood Wounds 🔗 Attachment Theory 🧱 Empathy And Boundaries 🔄 Codependency

The White Knight Syndrome 96%

The need to rescue broken partners is a childhood wound dressed as love.

by Mary C. Lamia 2015

3.88

113 ratings

🩹 Compulsive Caretaking 🧒 Childhood Wounds 🔗 Attachment Theory 🧱 Empathy And Boundaries 🔄 Codependency

Internal Family Systems Therapy

by Richard C. Schwartz • 1994

Your mind is many parts, not one self. The therapy that helps them trust the innate leader.

4.34

2k+

🧩 Parts Work 🧒 Inner Child Healing 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Family Systems Therapy 🩹 Trauma Recovery 🧘 Mindfulness Therapy

Internal Family Systems Therapy 95%

Your mind is many parts, not one self. The therapy that helps them trust the innate leader.

by Richard C. Schwartz 1994

4.34

2k+ ratings

🧩 Parts Work 🧒 Inner Child Healing 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Family Systems Therapy 🩹 Trauma Recovery 🧘 Mindfulness Therapy

The Little Book of Big Lies

by Tina Lifford • 2012

You've been telling yourself a story that isn't true. The simple phrase that breaks the pattern.

4.03

488

🔒 Limiting Beliefs 💗 Self Compassion 🧘 Inner Work 🌱 Emotional Healing 🪞 Reframing

The Little Book of Big Lies 95%

You've been telling yourself a story that isn't true. The simple phrase that breaks the pattern.

by Tina Lifford 2012

4.03

488 ratings

🔒 Limiting Beliefs 💗 Self Compassion 🧘 Inner Work 🌱 Emotional Healing 🪞 Reframing

Setting Boundaries That Stick

by Juliane Taylor Shore • 2023

Boundaries fail when you feel unsafe. Rewire your brain's threat response, and the words stick.

4.32

260

🧱 Boundary Setting 🧠 Interpersonal Neurobiology 💗 Self-Compassion 🧘 Emotional Regulation 🤲 Somatic Practices

Setting Boundaries That Stick 95%

Boundaries fail when you feel unsafe. Rewire your brain's threat response, and the words stick.

by Juliane Taylor Shore 2023

4.32

260 ratings

🧱 Boundary Setting 🧠 Interpersonal Neurobiology 💗 Self-Compassion 🧘 Emotional Regulation 🤲 Somatic Practices

Inner Bonding

by Margaret Paul • 1992

Why you keep abandoning your inner child, and a structured practice for making it stop.

4.29

628

🧒 Inner Child Work 🏠 Reparenting 🔗 Codependency Recovery 💬 Inner Dialogue 🚧 Emotional Boundaries

Inner Bonding 95%

Why you keep abandoning your inner child, and a structured practice for making it stop.

by Margaret Paul 1992

4.29

628 ratings

🧒 Inner Child Work 🏠 Reparenting 🔗 Codependency Recovery 💬 Inner Dialogue 🚧 Emotional Boundaries

There Is Nothing Wrong with You

by Cheri Huber • 1997

Self-hate is not a truth; it's a conditioning loop. The practice for turning down the volume.

4.16

2k+

🗣️ Inner Critic 💖 Self-Compassion 👐 Unconditional Acceptance ☸️ Buddhist Psychology 🧘 Mindfulness Practice

There Is Nothing Wrong with You 95%

Self-hate is not a truth; it's a conditioning loop. The practice for turning down the volume.

by Cheri Huber 1997

4.16

2k+ ratings

🗣️ Inner Critic 💖 Self-Compassion 👐 Unconditional Acceptance ☸️ Buddhist Psychology 🧘 Mindfulness Practice

The Tao of Fully Feeling

by Pete Walker • 1995

Grieving fully, including your anger, is the only road to authentic forgiveness.

4.41

1k+

🧒 Childhood Trauma 🩹 Trauma Recovery 💧 Grief Work 🧸 Inner Child Work 🤐 Emotional Suppression

The Tao of Fully Feeling 95%

Grieving fully, including your anger, is the only road to authentic forgiveness.

by Pete Walker 1995

4.41

1k+ ratings

🧒 Childhood Trauma 🩹 Trauma Recovery 💧 Grief Work 🧸 Inner Child Work 🤐 Emotional Suppression

The Kindness Method

by Shahroo Izadi • 2018

Your toughest habit won't budge because you are using the wrong voice. The kinder one works.

3.79

2k+

🔄 Behavior Change 💗 Self-Compassion 👿 Inner Critic 🗺️ Visual Planning 🛡️ Relapse Prevention

The Kindness Method 95%

Your toughest habit won't budge because you are using the wrong voice. The kinder one works.

by Shahroo Izadi 2018

3.79

2k+ ratings

🔄 Behavior Change 💗 Self-Compassion 👿 Inner Critic 🗺️ Visual Planning 🛡️ Relapse Prevention

Shame

by Joseph Burgo • 2018

Stop hiding from shame. Use it. The step-by-step path to self-esteem that actually holds up.

3.88

461

🔥 Shame And Guilt 🧒 Early Childhood Trauma 🛡️ Defense Mechanisms 🧸 Inner Child Healing 💪 Emotional Resilience

Shame 95%

Stop hiding from shame. Use it. The step-by-step path to self-esteem that actually holds up.

by Joseph Burgo 2018

3.88

461 ratings

🔥 Shame And Guilt 🧒 Early Childhood Trauma 🛡️ Defense Mechanisms 🧸 Inner Child Healing 💪 Emotional Resilience

Taming Your Outer Child

by Susan Anderson • 2011

Self-sabotage: a scared part triggers a defiant one. The dialogue that lets you separate them.

4.12

458

🧒 Inner Child Work 🚧 Self-Sabotage 💔 Attachment Repair 🧩 Parts Work 🧠 Neuroplasticity

Taming Your Outer Child 95%

Self-sabotage: a scared part triggers a defiant one. The dialogue that lets you separate them.

by Susan Anderson 2011

4.12

458 ratings

🧒 Inner Child Work 🚧 Self-Sabotage 💔 Attachment Repair 🧩 Parts Work 🧠 Neuroplasticity

Needy

by Mara Glatzel • 2023

Your needs aren't too much. Trust your compass, set boundaries, and stop performing for approval.

4.28

194

❤️ Self-Compassion 🧠 Emotional Needs 🚧 Boundary Setting 🔐 Self-Trust 🌱 Authentic Living

Needy 95%

Your needs aren't too much. Trust your compass, set boundaries, and stop performing for approval.

by Mara Glatzel 2023

4.28

194 ratings

❤️ Self-Compassion 🧠 Emotional Needs 🚧 Boundary Setting 🔐 Self-Trust 🌱 Authentic Living

Taming Your Gremlin

by Rick Carson • 1983

Your inner saboteur now has a face. The awareness practice that puts you back in charge.

3.89

2k+

🧠 Inner Critic Work 🧘 Mindfulness Practice 🪤 Self-Sabotage 🔗 Limiting Beliefs 🔄 Cognitive Reframing

Taming Your Gremlin 95%

Your inner saboteur now has a face. The awareness practice that puts you back in charge.

by Rick Carson 1983

3.89

2k+ ratings

🧠 Inner Critic Work 🧘 Mindfulness Practice 🪤 Self-Sabotage 🔗 Limiting Beliefs 🔄 Cognitive Reframing

The Path Between Us

by Suzanne Stabile • 2018

The nine ways people see the world, and what to do when yours collides with another.

4.12

11k+

🌀 Enneagram 🧩 Personality Frameworks 🤝 Conflict Resolution 💬 Communication Styles 💖 Self-Compassion

The Path Between Us 95%

The nine ways people see the world, and what to do when yours collides with another.

by Suzanne Stabile 2018

4.12

11k+ ratings

🌀 Enneagram 🧩 Personality Frameworks 🤝 Conflict Resolution 💬 Communication Styles 💖 Self-Compassion

How to Raise Your Self-Esteem

by Nathaniel Branden • 1987

Self-esteem hinges on a single practice: seeing yourself clearly and acting on what you see.

3.93

854

🧠 Cognitive Reframing 👶 Inner Child Work 💔 Guilt And Shame 🌱 Emotional Maturity 🎯 Responsibility Taking

How to Raise Your Self-Esteem 95%

Self-esteem hinges on a single practice: seeing yourself clearly and acting on what you see.

by Nathaniel Branden 1987

3.93

854 ratings

🧠 Cognitive Reframing 👶 Inner Child Work 💔 Guilt And Shame 🌱 Emotional Maturity 🎯 Responsibility Taking

Shame & Guilt

by Jane Middelton-Moz MS • 1990

Shame attacks who you are; guilt what you did. The simple distinction that changes everything.

4.06

176

🎭 Shame And Guilt 🏡 Family Of Origin Work 🧸 Inner Child Healing 🔄 Relationship Patterns 🔺 Emotional Triangles

Shame & Guilt 95%

Shame attacks who you are; guilt what you did. The simple distinction that changes everything.

by Jane Middelton-Moz MS 1990

4.06

176 ratings

🎭 Shame And Guilt 🏡 Family Of Origin Work 🧸 Inner Child Healing 🔄 Relationship Patterns 🔺 Emotional Triangles

The Science of Stuck

by Britt Frank • 2022

Being stuck isn't laziness; it's self-protection. Small moves, not giant leaps, break the pattern.

4.02

2k+

🩹 Trauma Recovery 🧠 Nervous System Regulation 🌑 Shadow Work 💭 Emotional Regulation 🚧 Self-Sabotage

The Science of Stuck 95%

Being stuck isn't laziness; it's self-protection. Small moves, not giant leaps, break the pattern.

by Britt Frank 2022

4.02

2k+ ratings

🩹 Trauma Recovery 🧠 Nervous System Regulation 🌑 Shadow Work 💭 Emotional Regulation 🚧 Self-Sabotage

The Happy Me Project

by Holly Matthews • 2022

Train your brain for joy, own your weirdness, and become your own savior. No fluff included.

3.85

136

📘 Practical Psychology 🔗 Limiting Beliefs 🔄 Cognitive Reframing 🗣️ Inner Critic 🚧 Boundary Setting

The Happy Me Project 95%

Train your brain for joy, own your weirdness, and become your own savior. No fluff included.

by Holly Matthews 2022

3.85

136 ratings

📘 Practical Psychology 🔗 Limiting Beliefs 🔄 Cognitive Reframing 🗣️ Inner Critic 🚧 Boundary Setting

When Perfect Isn't Good Enough

by Martin M. Antony • 1998

Standards that once drove you now fuel anxiety. Recalibrate them without losing your ambition.

3.64

591

🛠️ Perfectionism Recovery 🤔 Cognitive Distortions 🧪 Behavioral Experiments 💖 Self-Acceptance 🪞 Chronic Self-Criticism

When Perfect Isn't Good Enough 95%

Standards that once drove you now fuel anxiety. Recalibrate them without losing your ambition.

by Martin M. Antony 1998

3.64

591 ratings

🛠️ Perfectionism Recovery 🤔 Cognitive Distortions 🧪 Behavioral Experiments 💖 Self-Acceptance 🪞 Chronic Self-Criticism

The 5 Personality Patterns

by Steven Kessler • 2015

Five survival patterns from childhood live in your body: a map for outgrowing each one.

4.26

458

🧒 Developmental Psychology 🧘 Body Psychotherapy 🛡️ Defense Mechanisms 🗣️ Inner Critic Work 🏡 Reparenting

The 5 Personality Patterns 95%

Five survival patterns from childhood live in your body: a map for outgrowing each one.

by Steven Kessler 2015

4.26

458 ratings

🧒 Developmental Psychology 🧘 Body Psychotherapy 🛡️ Defense Mechanisms 🗣️ Inner Critic Work 🏡 Reparenting

Whole Again

by Jackson MacKenzie • 2019

The wound lives in your body. A protocol for healing what talk therapy cannot touch.

4.19

4k+

🧨 Toxic Relationships 🩹 Trauma Recovery 🧘 Somatic Healing 💗 Self-Compassion 😔 Shame And Guilt

Whole Again 95%

The wound lives in your body. A protocol for healing what talk therapy cannot touch.

by Jackson MacKenzie 2019

4.19

4k+ ratings

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4.23

416 ratings

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