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Beholding and Becoming

Beholding and Becoming

The Art of Everyday Worship
by Ruth Chou Simons 2019 224 pages
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Key Takeaways

1. Beholding God Transforms Your Identity

We all, with unveiled face, beholding the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from one degree of glory to another.

True transformation. Our deepest identity and spiritual growth stem from consistently beholding God. Just as an art student studying Georgia O'Keefe's work is changed by its beauty, our awe and reverence for God reshape us. This isn't about intellectual acknowledgment but a profound, worshipful gaze that impacts how we perceive ourselves and the world.

Worship defines us. Human beings are inherently worshippers; the question isn't if we worship, but what or whom. Our jobs, relationships, reputations, and possessions often compete for our adoration, skewing our appetites. Directing our eyes, minds, hearts, and hands toward God in everyday moments determines what we ultimately worship and, consequently, what we become.

Becoming like Christ. The apostle Paul highlights that by intently looking at who God is, we are progressively transformed into His likeness. This journey from "canvas to masterpiece" is the art of everyday worship, inviting us to be changed one ordinary moment at a time. Our self-esteem directly mirrors how highly we esteem God.

2. Embrace Smallness, Awe God's Greatness

Our relative smallness is not a declaration of worth or value, nor does it determine God’s attentiveness to our needs.

Humble perspective. In a culture obsessed with personal greatness and self-promotion, beholding God's immense power in creation offers a crucial counter-narrative. When we witness the infinite stars, thrashing seas, and tiniest creatures, we are humbled as created beings. This grander view of God's greatness dispels doubt and causes our hearts to surrender in praise, as Job did when God questioned his understanding of creation.

Freedom in humility. Recognizing our smallness—not in value, but in power—compared to God brings relief and freedom. We don't need to stress about staking our claim or securing our place of greatness because God is already preeminent. This posture of humility allows us to experience His nearness, His fulfillment of desires, His hearing of our cries, and His saving power.

Worship reorients. Our tendency to worship our busy lives, possessions, or reputations is exposed when we honestly inventory what we spend money on, worry about, or are willing to sin to acquire. Setting our hearts on what is truly worthy of worship—God's greatness—realigns our actions and dispels the illusion of our own control.

3. Rejoice in God's Daily Faithfulness

The steadfast love of the L ord never ceases; his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.

God's consistent rhythm. God orchestrates each day with unchanging faithfulness, from the reliable rising and setting of the sun to the constant presence of the moon and stars. This daily rhythm is a persistent renewal of His mercy, assuring us that He remains steadfast. It reminds us that our days are ordained and sacred, not random, and that His presence is reliable even in the mundane.

Gladness in today. A lifetime is composed of countless ordinary days, punctuated by a few unforgettable ones. Psalm 118:24 reminds us, "This is the day that the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it." This isn't a forced imperative but a natural response to believing that the Giver of every moment is faithful. When we trust Him for each step, we find reason to rejoice in the gift of today.

Comfort in constancy. When we look up from our daily tasks to witness a sunset or the rising moon, we behold God's steady provision of time. He never misses a beat, never forgets to send the moon and stars, and never leaves our side. This constant presence comforts us, assuring us that He sees our ordinary faithfulness and will sustain us in it.

4. Transform Mundane Tasks into Worship

Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward.

Purpose in the ordinary. Life is filled with unremarkable tasks—washing dishes, doing laundry, cleaning the refrigerator—that often feel endless and unrewarding. However, to our all-seeing God, everyday faithfulness in these tasks is an act of worship, not just survival. The apostle Paul encourages us to work heartily, as for the Lord, not seeking human approval or acknowledgment.

Love what must be done. The German poet Goethe advised, "Cease endlessly striving to do what you want to do and learn to love what must be done." This isn't about gritting our teeth but about a heart transformation. When our love for Christ reorders our desires, we can find joy even in unwelcome circumstances. Jesus' love woos us, enabling us to love what we ought, not just what comes naturally.

New heart, new perspective. Our natural discontentment often stems from an addiction to productivity, efficiency, and comfort. But through Christ, we receive a new heart that desires to please Him. This supernatural change allows us to see daily tasks as opportunities to praise and give thanks, remembering the One we aim to please. We are empowered to do all things to the glory of God, including the hard and unplanned.

5. Persevere in Holy, Hard Practice

God is more interested in how we keep running than how fast or flawlessly we get to our destination.

Marathon, not sprint. Spiritual growth is a race of endurance, not a flashy, one-time display. Daily practice can feel like drudgery when progress is slow or unseen, like a child learning piano. Yet, God assures us that our efforts are not in vain. We are called to "run with perseverance the race marked out for us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith."

Discipline is holy. Our instant culture struggles with the enduring work of faith, constantly seeking shortcuts. However, the narrow road to Christlikeness requires self-control and discipline—dying to pride, sin, and self-centeredness, and submitting to God. This "hard work" is holy because it aligns us with the Spirit, which produces the fruit of self-control, safeguarding us from derailment and sin's deception.

Practice makes progress. We are not called to perfection, but to progress. God is at work to perfect our faith through our consistent practicing, again and again. When we fix our gaze on Christ's endurance, we find hope and diligence, knowing that our heavenly Father sees our efforts and promises that we will be thankful for this one day.

6. Your Home is Your Mission Field

Recognizing that my home is a mission field—equal to a remote land or culture—changes the way I think about the people right before me and my reasoning about why God has placed me there.

Gospel at the table. We often prioritize "ministry to others" over the unseen work within our own homes, but God considers our families a primary mission field. He instructed the Israelites to diligently teach His words to their children, talking of them when they sit, walk, lie down, and rise. This consistent recounting of God's greatness and redemption ensures that His story is known and glorified within our households.

Imperfect families, perfect God. God created family, and sin marred it, but redemption through Christ restores us to our heavenly Father. Our earthly families, though imperfect, are meant to model and proclaim the gospel. The pressure is off to have "Norman Rockwell" dinners; God uses our messy realities to reflect transformation through Christ's saving and sanctifying work.

Love with truth. Mother Teresa famously said, "If you want to change the world, go home and love your family." This love includes sharing the full truth of the gospel—not a watered-down version, but the amazing grace of Jesus who loved and saved us while we were His enemies. By continually pointing to Jesus in our daily routines, we become missionaries to our own people, from the kitchen table to rush hour errands.

7. Seek Eternal, Unfading Treasure

For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.

Temporary vs. lasting joy. Our obsession with improving and protecting earthly possessions often blinds us to our need for a total rebuild in Christ. Just as a faux-granite counter reveals its true substance when scratched, superficial spiritual makeovers fail under trial. Jesus offers no shortcuts or temporary fixes; He offers total replacement and covers the cost, making us new, not just better.

Invest in eternity. If our homes, comforts, and belongings are our treasure, we will prioritize their safety and preservation, leading to worry and discontent. Jesus instructs us to "lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal." This eternal treasure is invaluable because it dwells with God and invites us into communion with Him forever.

God's multiplication. Storing treasure in heaven means investing in what God treasures: the redemption of souls for His glory and His children's good. While earthly treasure requires nervous self-promotion and hoarding, heavenly treasure multiplies according to our riches in Christ, which are more than enough for every need. We are treasure seekers daily; aligning our hearts with Christ's treasure shapes our desires and pursuits toward what is unfading.

8. Surrender Control, Trust God's Will

Our God is in the heavens; he does all that he pleases.

The illusion of control. We often equate planning with control, believing we can orchestrate circumstances better than God if only we had all the variables. This incessant need to manage our lives stems from a faulty belief that we know better than God and can avoid pain, conflict, or failure by trusting in ourselves. This self-assurance is a subtle idol, promising security but ultimately failing us.

God's true will. God's will for our lives often feels mysterious, but Paul clarifies it: "This is the will of God, your sanctification." And also, "Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you." God's will is less about the "who, where, what, and how" of our lives and more about the "why"—our sanctification and our response of joy and gratitude.

Freedom in surrender. When we surrender our need for control and trust God's sovereignty, we align our hearts with Him. Our safety nets of strategy and manipulation are hollow forms of security. Instead, we turn to our sovereign and faithful God, who does all that He pleases to bring Himself glory and demonstrate His steadfast love. Placing our need for control in His hands transforms us into reflections of His glory.

9. Failure Reveals God's Grace, Defines True Success

Failure and shortcomings remind us that we are not saviors of our own lives.

The inevitability of failure. We all fail, despite our best efforts to avoid, hide, or deny it. Our fear of failure often stems from a worship of our own reputation, a pursuit of self-centered security, and a denial of dependence and weakness. God, however, uses our shortcomings to tether us to the humbling reality that we are in desperate need of His grace.

Grace, not condemnation. Our daily failures and inconsistencies do not define us before a holy God if our hope is in Jesus. Instead, they drive us to gratefulness for His saving grace. Paul reminds us, "There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus." God allows us to feel the weight of our shortcomings so we might behold the abundance of His grace, freeing us from shame and self-condemnation.

Faithfulness is success. Worldly success is often defined by achievement, victory, and accolades. Jesus, however, defined success differently: by doing exactly what the Father gave Him to do. In the Parable of the Talents, success is faithful stewardship for God's glory, not personal greatness. God's pleasure in our everyday faithfulness is our true reward, leading to His welcome: "Well done, good and faithful servant."

10. Find True Abundance in Christ, Not Wealth

For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evils. It is through this craving that some have wandered away from the faith and pierced themselves with many pangs.

Beyond material wealth. We often live feeling "not enough," like beggars in the house of the King, despite God's promise of abundant life. While God astoundingly grants material blessings, true abundance is not measured by bank accounts or possessions. It's a soul abundance, a fullness found in Christ that saves us from spiritual bankruptcy and satisfies our deepest longings.

The craving for self-satisfaction. The love of money, at its root, is a love for what money can acquire: comfort, appearance, approval, pride, security, or ease. This craving to secure our own satisfaction apart from Christ causes us to wander from dependence on Jesus. We cannot chase worldliness and run toward Jesus simultaneously; we become what we behold.

Guard your heart. Our day-to-day patterns, like water carving a chasm, can subtly lead us into the snare of worldly desire. Jesus warns, "Take care, and be on your guard against all covetousness, for one’s life does not consist in the abundance of his possessions." Abundance begins with a heart that stores its true treasure in Christ, guarding it and longing for more of what is good and eternal.

11. Speak Life from a Heart Overflowing with God

A good man produces good out of the good storeroom of his heart. An evil man produces evil out of the evil storeroom, for his mouth speaks from the overflow of the heart.

The power of words. Our words are a superpower, capable of cutting, exposing, forming, and fashioning. God Himself spoke existence into being, and Jesus is called "the Word." Yet, our own words often betray what we truly worship. Careless, hurtful, or manipulative speech reveals idols in our hearts, showing we believe ourselves to know better than God.

Heart condition revealed. James warns that the tongue, though small, is a powerful fire that can stain the whole body and set ablaze the course of life. The issue isn't politeness or communication style, but the condition of our hearts. Bitter thoughts, judgment, or a belief that God is less than He is will eventually overflow through our lips.

Redeemed speech. We cannot tame the tongue through white-knuckled niceties alone. True transformation of our words begins with a heart transformed by God. "Keep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life." When our hearts overflow with Christ, our mouths will speak life, truth, and praise, reflecting the living Word we bear.

12. Rest is Productive, Abiding is Life

Rest is where we remember that He is God and we are not.

Rest is essential. In a culture that glorifies busy, we often equate survival with endless striving, neglecting the spiritual rest God offers. Like Martha, distracted by much serving, we forget that rest—ceasing from work and being still before the Lord—is not a luxury but productive. God Himself rested after creation, not because He was tired, but to be our rest.

Freedom from striving. We are born "bricklayers," constantly gathering straw and meeting quotas, enslaved by work and productivity. God led the Israelites out of Egyptian bondage, a purposeful picture of the freedom from performance offered through Jesus. When we don't rest, we live as slaves to the burden of sin rather than freed children in Christ, missing the sufficient grace and rescue He provides.

Abiding in Christ. Our longing for "home" points to another world, a place of rest and security that doesn't fluctuate. Jesus invites us to abide in Him, making His home with us. This intimate belonging is a home we can't lose, a longing we can't fill otherwise. Actively abiding in Christ is the key to making our home with Him, ensuring we travel light with our true home securely in our hearts, continually supplied by His unending source.

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Beholding and Becoming receives overwhelmingly positive reviews (4.62/5), praised for its stunning watercolor artwork and profound spiritual content about everyday worship. Readers appreciate the book's structure exploring God's attributes through "Beholding" and "Becoming" sections, along with a symbolic glossary explaining recurring artistic motifs. Many describe it as convicting yet encouraging, perfect for slow, meditative reading. The integration of hymns, scripture, and nature imagery resonates deeply. Reviewers recommend it as a meaningful gift and emphasize its biblical soundness. One audio-only listener found it lighter without visuals, rating it 3 stars.

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Ruth Chou Simons is a Wall Street Journal bestselling author, artist, and speaker who founded GraceLaced, an art and lifestyle brand. Her works include GraceLaced, Beholding and Becoming, When Strivings Cease, and Now and Not Yet. She combines watercolor art with biblical teaching, making spiritual truths accessible through her signature artistic style and relatable communication. Simons is also a podcaster and has been featured on Good Morning America, Fox, Christianity Today, and Hallmark Home and Family. She serves as CEO and Chief Creative Officer of her brand while living in Western Colorado with her husband Troy and their six sons.

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